Try to find out exactly what it is about Disney that doesn't appeal to him. (Be prepared it could be a long list!) We just got back from Disney. Our last trip was 6 years ago! For my DH what he hated most was the small hotel room, one bathroom, the crowded pool, and spending a fortune on dinner.
We rented a home with its own pool, and DH, who loves to cook, prepared dinner most nights. Having his own pool was heaven to DH. We even had cocktail hour right in the pool! Our house was only 10 minutes away so we could easily go back in the evening.
Some DH's just are not thrilled with traditional Disney attractions, but many of them love the water parks. We went to both TL and Blizzard Beach. I have never seen so many laughing fathers all in one location. Dads love those water parks.