Despite the fact that this is a blatant attempt at gatekeeping, I'll address it: No, no, yes--many times.
And, not that you asked, but I've averaged about 275-300pts/year in
DVC stays over the last 15 years. Between summer of 2016 and now, I've spent one week on Oahu, one week on Maui, three weeks on the Big Island, and five weeks on Kauai.
Of course, none of that is relevant to whether I'm allowed to have and express an opinion about DVC generally or Aulani in particular--and I was clear from the point at which I suggested "maybe not Aulani" that I haven't stayed at Aulani. And that was only after recommending waitlisting first, so it's not like I am a Never Aulani person.
But I don't need to stay there to know that an artificial reef is, well, artificial. I admire their efforts at trying to incorporate Hawaiian culture, but the development is still
haole-centric. (If you've been to Hawaii and don't know what that means, you might not have gotten far enough out of the tourist bubble.) Disney has a very distinct playbook, and even the JR-led bits of it are ersatz and sanitized. For example, I've visited India, and I've been to the Asia section of Animal Kingdom. They are in no way the same thing.
(Just as one example, there is no cricket. Best of luck to India in the ICC semi-finals! Oh, and happy Diwali, which just happens to be today.)
That doesn't mean Aulani can't be great. It's clearly a lovely resort, and lots of people like it. That's wonderful! I'm glad people enjoy it. In fact, more DVC owners seem to like it than there are rooms for those owners, because it seems to be hard to book for much of the year.
My
only point in this thread is that there is a lot more to Hawaii than Aulani, or Ko'Olina, or Oahu, and if you can't get a reservation at Aulani, it's possible that a different visit to Hawaii will also be awesome for many reasons. If you interpret that as "Aulani is bad" that's your problem, not mine.