- have you ever been to wdw before? If yes, when was the last time?
- Do you have 9 full days at the park, or does that include two half days for travel?
- how are you travelling and where from? Will you be a little jetlagged on your first day?
- there are 4 parks, there are 2 water parks, you want to rest in between. Do you want to visit all parks?
You want to visit the parks during the week. Then I would say, monday park 1, tuesday park 2, wednesday rest, thursday park 3 and friday park 4, water parks in the weekends.
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Genie+ and lightning lanes, do you understand the workings? If not, watch some videos on
youtube to get a grasp of what it means. You first need to understand the system before you know if it works for your family.
It can be added per day while you are staying there, you do not need to make a decision on this now. Get informed. before your trip.
- VIP tours are indeed expensive, but can take pressure of your shoulders. If this is what you want, call Disney to enquire if there are still tours available for your dates. A vip tour is not necessary for a good time. With preparation and plan you can have a good time without spending a lot of cash.
Step 1: determine which parks you want to visit and when. Make your park reservations.
Step 2: do you want to eat at a table service restaurant? Determine which at each park and see if reservations are available.
Step 3: Get to understand Genie+, determine if it is right for your family. Buy it if you think you need it. But as said, you can delay this decision for now.
Step 4: have a look at which rides, shows and activities there are to do per park, determine per person 2 things you want to see or do in each park.
If you have determined this, you will have a plan, and if you want you can look into the advanced planning stuff

on touringplans.com for example. But for now, start with the basics.