Ye Olde Husband has finally learned.
Started with wedding planning, which was especially difficult b/c I just wanted to go to Vegas (talking Bellagio type, not drive-thru, but that's still easier b/c they do it all for you) and HE wanted the big poofy wedding. So HE had the wedding dreams but other than "big wedding with family friends etc" he had NO ideas, and I had to come up with ideas. So that was hard and he didn't want to hear about everything, totally missing the point that I was trying to get his input 'cuz I had nothin'!
Then it was the honeymoon, which he paid for (had to, as I had quit my job and was a SAHFiancee, LOL) but I planned, and I talked about it incessantly (yay for cruise critic forums).
Then we had a honeymoon baby so I was all over the mothering dot com forums. By then he'd had a successful and basically well-planned wedding, and a nice honeymoon so he started to understand that planning stuff can work!
And then the Disneyland stuff started when DS was 1.5, and even though he was a little bit weird with my planning, once we had a great one-day trip, he finally, totally, got it.
And on our last trip in May, HE finally became almost as big a "fan" as I am, so now it's not just getting it intellectually, but in his heart.
And now I have to continue making lists for our 2 day camping trip starting tomorrow. Luckily he just goes along with that now, b/c he's seen how well it all works.
