I am BEYOND MAD!!

[cheermom1]

Exactly. Makes life so much simplier and more enjoyable.

I would make my own plans with g'ma and let the other family members have their expensive thing.

I guess your sister's kids can go to school now, eh?

we can't as crazy aunt has to were we can't take her out! this makes me so mad!

see she illegally got poa from my mom and put her in a nursing home and made to were no one but her and my other aunt (who lives in another state) can check her out...like I said this is a long story with lots of history...

and yeah I guess they can huh?? ha ha

 

[The Mystery Machine]

we can't as crazy aunt has to were we can't take her out! this makes me so mad!

see she illegally got poa from my mom and put her in a nursing home and made to were no one but her and my other aunt (who lives in another state) can check her out...like I said this is a long story with lots of history...

and yeah I guess they can huh?? ha ha

That does not stop you from going there yourself and having a celebration at the nursing home.

 

[cheermom1]

That does not stop you from going there yourself and having a celebration at the nursing home.

yes we can do that..this is just so sad though ..I don't understand why she has to be so mean and do things like this? I mean this is gma's bday not crazy aunt day! I just need to be mad at her for a while...

 

[mumom95]

That does not stop you from going there yourself and having a celebration at the nursing home.

That's what I was thinking.

Sounds to me like this may be a blessing in disguise. If you have so much drama in your family (with your aunt only liking certain people) let them have their party Saturday. Your neice and nephew can go to school and then get the group that couldn't make the party together and go have a celebration at the nursing home on a different day. This way grandma gets two parties.

I can see why you're angry and want to vent. But sometimes life stinks, you just have to accept it and figure out how to make lemonade out of lemons.

Good luck and Happy 85th Birthday to Grandma!!

 

[Evil Genius]

OP You are allways talking about your family. From your cousin on facebook to your SIL and now your aunt Those are just 3 that I can think of off the top of my head, I know there have been more. Aren't you a little worried about what they are saying about YOU?

 

[cheermom1]

Um, no offense cheermom, but this is probably your third post regarding your "crazy" family in a month. That practically once a week someone is messing up in your judgemental eyes. Take it easy. From what I read of your posting maybe you ought to ease off a bit. I can see venting here about family but then there are times when you got to wonder why you are freaking out about the things they do if you know the members are the type who do crazy behavior.

First I am NOT judging anyone but her thank you. and she really is crazy she has been in the loony bin twice and she carry's a gun! Like I have said there is a lot of history with this woman..we do not seek her out as we know what kind of person she is..she comes to us and does these things..my gma's other doc told her that he is going to make to where she can't come to see her and while he was in the process she somehow got poa of gma and moved her and set up all these rules...we are really tired and drained from her..and if I am posting so much about her is b/c she really is doing this crazy stuff...I don't know how else to explain her expect like I already said her grown kids refuse to have anything to with her as well...

she really doesn't need to have poa and we have been trying to get it back but so far we have been met with wall after wall...plus one of my other aunts (that lives in another state) says she can handle her and is trying to muffle her a bit...

 

[cheermom1]

OP You are allways talking about your family. From your cousin on facebook to your SIL and now your aunt Those are just 3 that I can think of off the top of my head, I know there have been more. Aren't you a little worried about what they are saying about YOU?

First I don't care what my crazy aunt says about me b/c I know what ever it is it is a lie! I don;t give a rats behind what she thinks...nor do I care what my sil that stole my other sil id thinks either b/c anyone that does things like that doesn;t need to be that close to me...

 

[LunchladyDoris]

First I don't care what my crazy aunt says about me b/c I know what ever it is it is a lie! I don;t give a rats behind what she thinks...nor do I care what my sil that stole my other sil id thinks either b/c anyone that does things like that doesn;t need to be that close to me...

how did your SIL steal your other SIL?

 

[LunchladyDoris]

First I am NOT judging anyone but her thank you. and she really is crazy she has been in the loony bin twice and she carry's a gun! Like I have said there is a lot of history with this woman..we do not seek her out as we know what kind of person she is..she comes to us and does these things..my gma's other doc told her that he is going to make to where she can't come to see her and while he was in the process she somehow got poa of gma and moved her and set up all these rules...we are really tired and drained from her..and if I am posting so much about her is b/c she really is doing this crazy stuff...I don't know how else to explain her expect like I already said her grown kids refuse to have anything to with her as well...
she really doesn't need to have poa and we have been trying to get it back but so far we have been met with wall after wall...plus one of my other aunts (that lives in another state) says she can handle her and is trying to muffle her a bit...

Just like you were judging your SIL in another post or all the other ones where you point out your family's hard times? I see that everyone is perfect except you. It is sad that you are calling out your aunt and mentioning her relationship with her children. You seem to be villifying her.

 

[wvjules]

First I am NOT judging anyone but her thank you. and she really is crazy she has been in the loony bin twice and she carry's a gun! Like I have said there is a lot of history with this woman..we do not seek her out as we know what kind of person she is..she comes to us and does these things..my gma's other doc told her that he is going to make to where she can't come to see her and while he was in the process she somehow got poa of gma and moved her and set up all these rules...we are really tired and drained from her..and if I am posting so much about her is b/c she really is doing this crazy stuff...I don't know how else to explain her expect like I already said her grown kids refuse to have anything to with her as well...

she really doesn't need to have poa and we have been trying to get it back but so far we have been met with wall after wall...plus one of my other aunts (that lives in another state) says she can handle her and is trying to muffle her a bit...

Whew...that's a long sentence...or was it periods stuttering...or am I just seeing things...I'm not sure anymore...punctuation is a good thing...reading all of the "..." made me take too many breaths...now I am going to pass out...thud...

Do you get along with ANY of your family?

 

[Trish Bessette]

Okay, plan your own private party with your grandmother with just the people that were unable to attend this party. Make it a real festive affair.

I second this opinion

 

[cheermom1]

Whew...that's a long sentence...or was it periods stuttering...or am I just seeing things...I'm not sure anymore...punctuation is a good thing...reading all of the "..." made me take too many breaths...now I am going to pass out...thud...

Do you get along with ANY of your family?

yes I do all but crazy aunt (which no one does) and sil who steals!! why would anyone expect you to get along with them in first place??

and if you don;t like the way i type then don;t read!! I can't make everyone happy and i'm not going to worry about it either..

 

[2binak]

First I don't care what my crazy aunt says about me b/c I know what ever it is it is a lie! I don;t give a rats behind what she thinks...nor do I care what my sil that stole my other sil id thinks either b/c anyone that does things like that doesn;t need to be that close to me...

I haven't followed all of your posts, I've only read this one, but if you don't care what these people say or do, why do you go to the Dis to complain about them? If they bring you that much stress, maybe you need to actually talking to someone in real life who can actually help you work through your issues.

 

[cheermom1]

I haven't followed all of your posts, I've only read this one, but if you don't care what these people say or do, why do you go to the Dis to complain about them? If they bring you that much stress, maybe you need to actually talking to someone in real life who can actually help you work through your issues.

I was only venting about not being able to see my gma for her bday b/c of my aunt..I do everything I can to not have anything to do with her...besides there is nothing anyone can do about it except not have any contact ..but right now that is not all that easy to do since she have poa of gma ...

 

[LunchladyDoris]

I was only venting about not being able to see my gma for her bday b/c of my aunt..I do everything I can to not have anything to do with her...besides there is nothing anyone can do about it except not have any contact ..but right now that is not all that easy to do since she have poa of gma ...

so, your grandma has to not see you because you have a problem with her daughter? Just go, your grandmother's birthday has nothing to do with you or your aunt.

 

[cheermom1]

so, your grandma has to not see you because you have a problem with her daughter? Just go, your grandmother's birthday has nothing to do with you or your aunt.

I was going to go until she changed the place to where we can't afford it...I talked to everyone else and they can't go either only crazy aunt is going ...

 

[Sammy]

I was going to go until she changed the place to where we can't afford it...I talked to everyone else and they can't go either only crazy aunt is going ...

If that truly is the case (that no one else is going to the restaurant except your aunt), then all the rest of your family should plan a birthday celebration at the nursing home for your grandma. End of story.

 

[sbell111]

This thread sure is angsty. Of course, I have little clue what it's about because I don't know what POA means. Why do some feel like they need to abbreviate so much of their posts? Does it make them cool?

Rant on. Whatever.

 

[cheermom1]

If that truly is the case (that no one else is going to the restaurant except your aunt), then all the rest of your family should plan a birthday celebration at the nursing home for your grandma. End of story.

Yep we haven't talked that much about it but we are talking a little..however the ones that were coming that are out of state probably won't come now...

Power of attorney = POA

 

[sbell111]

Power of attorney = POA

Oh. That might make a difference, or not.

Perhaps the aunt thinks that the uninvited are not worthy of being invited because they are no help. Of course, if they are indeed useless slackers who never help in the grandmother's needs then perhaps they should be shunned.

Carry on.