And therefore difficult for the entire family. My son is 21 however functions more at a 5 year old level on average. His language skills are minimal. He began having issues when a child came into his special ed class that did not speak but made horrible animal like noises. He then had a tumor in his ear removed and prosthesis inserted (w/out he would be deaf) and then it got worse. He is now terrified of fireworks, fire engines, leaf blowers, sudden noise, sudden laughter, human noise, school bus, lawn mowers........but the human is the worst because that has led to the panic going to the mall, movies, parties, and the end all this year SCHOOL. It got so bad he is only going half days. That helped reduce his stress factor. But he can no longer go to job site and misses out on half the community involvement. Today I had to pick him up at their trip to the park because the bus ride was so upsetting she didn't want to put him back on. (oh, yes I have to drive him to and from school) He doesn't understand like you do to "run for cover", he freezes. Then the pain and anxiety escalate until sometimes he has a full blown physical panic attack. Because of the pain he shouldn't be touched or he will push or hit you away from him. It is devastating to see him in this much agony. I had one child a couple years ago and have a totally different one now, that will have great difficulty finding a place in this world as an adult. It has been so hard to make everyone understand what he is going through. They just don't. He doesn't even understand. And the reality is he may be with us forever now. He hates to leave the house and can only be home for less than an hour alone, and I just don't know how we will function as hermits.
Inkkognito, I understand your pain, I watch it everyday. He did go through therapy for months to help him appropriately react - ask for ear plugs, ask for headphones, ask to leave the location and that is improved............Our doc discussed the noise therapy, but no one around here does it and as it was explained to me..... it would be white noise in an hearing aid type device that he would have to wear for 8-10 hours per day for at least a year and it would be at least $5000, probably not paid by insurance, plus travel. And the success rate is low.
We are going to get him the Bose headphones which I am told by many are far beyond anything on the market. They are $300 and much smaller than all the others, and they fold up. Doctor also suggested these and other possiblities but he didn't think anything would truly cure it, was a matter of learning how to deal with it.
Hope you have a magical trip !

My son lives for Disney World and anything Disney, the possiblity that he couldn't go again was just unbearable. We think he reached down and pulled out everything he had to enjoy his trip !