that girl was probably just trying to cause drama.
this is what i saw happen before my eyes on myspace today:
this girl i used to be friends with (mariah) used to date this guy (steven) and SHE broke up with him and called him every name in the book (rather unjustly might i add) and naturally he doesn't want to talk to her. he ends up dating this girl that he dated before (samantha) and they seem to be happy together.
well mariah starts texting steven and "finally got everything off her chest" (hello you broke up three months ago. let it go.) and now she keeps doing surveys talking about how the last person she dated hates her and stuff. kinda bragging that she made him mad again.
okay, so she provoked him, we have that laid down, right? well today she does a survey, and she said that she had texts locked in her inbox because "she needs to see what kind of person he really is." and we KNOW she's talking about showing those texts from steven, where she pissed him off, to samantha.
now, if my boyfriends crazy ex girlfriend started texting him, to make him mad. then she saved his mean texts towards her, then she came to me to show them to me, because she is trying to get us to break up, all i would have to say to her would be, "you deserve to have him talk to you that way." i mean, how INSANE do you have to be to come up with that plan? how hellbent on his unhappiness are you? you dated him once, broke up with him, then did it again, then did it again, and this last time, you keep calling him to remind him that you exist. how big of an ego do you have? how important do you think you are?
ugh i hate girls lol.
i kind of had a similar situation last summer with this;;
so in about may of my freshman year i met this guy (L) at my best friend's locker..let's call her E.
weeks went by and i talked to L a little bit and saw him at E's locker every now and then. E was dating someone but she really liked L and was bascially, "playing with his heart". one day she'd tell me how much she really likes L then the next she'd say something that was really mean about him. and since she was dating someone i figured that L was fair game..? so i started liking him...dun dun duuuuuuuuun!
she knew i liked him and always made fun of me for it(in a "fun" way..i think). i had gotten L's number and started talking to him more and more and really started liking him. we had a lot in common and it didn't hurt that he was cute..hehe.
so during the last week of school, i told him that i liked him, a lot and i would understand if he didn't feel the same way. he told me he liked me a little but he wasn't sure if he liked me "like that". at the time, L really liked E because she had him convinced she'd dump her bf for him. that's why he was hesitant to like me..because he thought E had so much power over him. on the last day of school, E calls me on L's phone saying L wants to go out with me. i was thrilled and i thought summer was going to be perfect..HA!
the whole next week E had been acting weird and stuff and L barely talked to me. exactly a week later L sent me a long break-up text explaining it was "ruining friendships" and he just wanted to be friends. later, i found out E made the text and told him to forward it to me..UGH! and the award to L for doing so was for E to dump her bf and date L..so of course he was going to do it. but me and L were still friends and we got to know each other more and E kept trying to control his life. in the mean time, he started liking me more and more and two weeks later HE asked me out again.
the whole summer consisted of fighting, drama, tears, and suicide threats. let me tell you, that was fun! @_@ jk... when E and L had their little "thing" going on, L would always send her texts about how mcuh he loved her and he would send her voice recordings of him saying i love you to her. and of course, she saved them...AND SENT THEM TO ME! she tried telling me L still had feeling for her and he was just using me. blah blah blah. so the rest of the summer and 3/4 of my sophomore year me and her kept going on and off being friends. she "controlled" my life and i was too afraid to stick up for myself. but finally around end of march of this year, i ended our "friendship". we don't talk anymore and if we do it's "hi" @ parties and stuff. that's it. thank god..lol
++so i guess how this relates to the thread is that girls will try anything to start drama. kelsi; i'm sorry that girl did that to you. she obvioulsy just wanted to start something knowing you two were dating. but i'm glad she didn't interfere with your relationship
**btw, L and i have been dating since june 27, 2008...so a little over one year and one month.
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