How Did You Meet Your S.O.?

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I'm not anywhere near to getting married, but I am a romantic at heart and love hearing the stories on the PJs and TRs on the wedding board about how people met their hubby-to-be (especially if Disney is at all involved :lovestruc), so I thought I would start a thread for people to post their stories . . .
 
I wish I had a more interesting story like he saved my cat from a burning building, but that's just not the case.

After a really really bad break up I took a year off dating, and focused on myself! I changed jobs, took some grad classes, bought a house, lost weight. I felt like a brand new me!:cool1: And I decided that I was ready to share the new me with someone, but I was really nervous, so I made a list of everything that the new person had to be, and I decided that if a man wasnt everything on my list, he wasnt the guy for me. It was about that time that I got a free 3-day trial for Match.com. So I decided to go for it, (secretly). He was the only person that I messaged, and I sat around for 3 days and waited for him to respond. I signed on constantly to check to see if he had signed on and read my message. It was the day after my free trial ended when he responded (he has amazing timing). It turned out that he hadnt checked his message because he moved to Maryland, (bummer!). But we decided that we were both willing to try a long distance relationship, because there was something special about this.After that everything happened really fast. We moved him back to PA last October, and our wedding is this October! :love:

We're waiting for Disney to call and ask for the rights to our story! LOL
 
My story is just sad and pathetic:

I'm the oldest of 4. I have 3 little brothers. I was 12 at the time (almost 13) and I was joining every after school club that I could. So I wouldn't haven't to go home after school. On Tuesdays, the only club that was offered was Hamm Radio. I said it could be interesting. If I did't like it, I wouldn't have to go back. I walk in and standing there are 3 guys, the teacher, and then me. David was the president since the club was his idea. We became friends, and started to hang out at the mall and the ice skating rink. We said then we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but how much can a 13 and 14 year old really date. He went to high school and I finished middle school. We dated on and off in high school and then the day before my high school graduation we had a date. Although, we said then that it most likely would be a summer thing. Since I was leaving for college at the end of summer we've been together ever since.
 
DF and I also met online. I was just out of a relationship and decided to date a bit...nothing serious but maybe go out with a few people. Well Df never came up in my search because he lived about 45 minutes away. We began talking via email and then phone (I was also seeing another guy). We had our first date and I have been hooked ever since :rotfl: We both knew that night that we were meant to meet and that we were going to spend the rest of our lives together. He is not the kind of guy I would have usually dated but since I wasn't looking for anything serious...lol I gave it a shot.:lovestruc
 

We met at a friends house. He had come back to Germany for a second tour, and a friend who had known him the first time said I had to meet him. I got there late and he had been drinking already...and was LOUD and obnoxious. Didn't think much of him until we were planning a group trip to Paris. He seemed very attentive during the planning, and after some French wine the first night, we became a "couple."
 
Dh and I both worked at Canada's Wonderland from 2000-2003. He worked rides and I worked in the waterpark. We met our 3rd season while I was helping out the ride group next to his before the waterpark opened. We talked a bit, but I was still seeing someone. At the end of the season we exchanged email addresses and started talking again around Christmas. We had our first date in January and that was it. Didn't matter that we dated on and off (and when we were off...man were we off :headache:), I knew he was the one for me.:lovestruc I was hooked completely from the first kiss. :cloud9:
 
How did I meet my partner? We met at Disney World, of course!

Once upon a time . . . I had planned an getting a large group of friends together for Gay Day 2003. Since I'd also convinced my family to take a trip to WDW in March of 2003 to celebrate Mom & Dad's 35th Anniversary, I bought an annual pass for both trips.

Well, due to lots of unforseen circumstances, my friends cancelled on me one by one. I was bummed, but determined that I was going to use that annual pass, and I was going to Gay Days by myself! So I went to gayday.com and started participating in their discussion forum and weekly online chats. I met a group of people who were going to meet up to hang out together in a "no pressure" type situation. Nobody looking to hook up, just a group of new friends hitting the parks together instead of as individual couples or as singles (there were more couples, though).

We chatted together, and had a great time. Those of us staying at the Carribean Beach Resort even discussed which buildings would be best, and requested Building 45.

I was looking forward to having a great time and meeting some new friends. I WAS NOT looking to meet anyone for anything more than park hopping.

Then I met Scott. He was one of the guys in building 45, and I met him at Pleasure Island at a gayday.com forum mixer. We hit it off immediately, and because we were in the same building, we decided to meet for breakfast the next morning before meeting up with the others at the park. We've been together ever since. That night, on what we consider our "first date" (The date we mark for our anniversary), we went to the Adventurers Club. The first drink he ever bought me was a Kungaloosh. That night we shared our first kiss on the streets of Pleasure Island.

Scott was living in L.A. and I was in Dallas. We did the long distance thing for a while, and visited each other. I didn't want to live in L.A. and he wasn't wild about moving to Dallas. We finally agreed that we could both persue our careers in Orlando, and by Gay Day 2004 we were living in an Orlando apartment while our house was being built in Winderemere/Ocoee (and delayed repeatedly by Hurricanes Charlie, Frances, and Jean). And we got to go back to Pleasure Island every week and were regulars at the Adventurers Club where we made some amazing friends. In 2007 we adopted the most adorable miniature dachshund in the whole world, and named him Tolliver. He makes our family complete.

In September 2008 (the night after they closed the Adventurers Club and the rest of Pleasure Island) we had our "Big Fat Gay Disney Wedding". Our ceremony was on the library stage at the Adventurers Club. We got married at Pleasure Island after having met there.

So that's the Fairy Tale. I met Prince Charming at Disney World. And married him there, too.

And we lived happily ever after . . .

Not the end.
 
I have been on these boards since 2006, but when I got a new computer, I couldn't get my password or anything to work, so I started a new screen name and instead of visiting the family boards over and over, I decided to venture over to the singles board.
There was a group from New England that I had become friendly with. We were planning a group meet of about 10 people @ a casino in CT. It was clear that I was a planner and Tom (Buena Vista) offered to help.
We had many long (3+ hour) phone conversations. Side note: I completely hate the phone!! The phone calls started as planning a meet, then quickly changed into "getting to know you" calls. After a month of this, we decided to meet half way. Tom is from Boston and I am from Vermont. We met in a little town in NH.
We hit it off immediately and have been together 9 months.
We take turns driving to each other's homes multiple times a month, and we have done a trip to CT, NYC, Disney- twice, and other little trips.
I have two children from a previous marriage (DD17 and DS6)
Tom is excellent with them both, and they all love each other dearly!

Like rpmdfw- our story continues, too...

I don't think Walt himself could have imagined the impact he would have on so many lives!!!
 
How did I meet my partner? We met at Disney World, of course!

Once upon a time . . . I had planned an getting a large group of friends together for Gay Day 2003. Since I'd also convinced my family to take a trip to WDW in March of 2003 to celebrate Mom & Dad's 35th Anniversary, I bought an annual pass for both trips.

Well, due to lots of unforseen circumstances, my friends cancelled on me one by one. I was bummed, but determined that I was going to use that annual pass, and I was going to Gay Days by myself! So I went to gayday.com and started participating in their discussion forum and weekly online chats. I met a group of people who were going to meet up to hang out together in a "no pressure" type situation. Nobody looking to hook up, just a group of new friends hitting the parks together instead of as individual couples or as singles (there were more couples, though).

We chatted together, and had a great time. Those of us staying at the Carribean Beach Resort even discussed which buildings would be best, and requested Building 45.

I was looking forward to having a great time and meeting some new friends. I WAS NOT looking to meet anyone for anything more than park hopping.

Then I met Scott. He was one of the guys in building 45, and I met him at Pleasure Island at a gayday.com forum mixer. We hit it off immediately, and because we were in the same building, we decided to meet for breakfast the next morning before meeting up with the others at the park. We've been together ever since. That night, on what we consider our "first date" (The date we mark for our anniversary), we went to the Adventurers Club. The first drink he ever bought me was a Kungaloosh. That night we shared our first kiss on the streets of Pleasure Island.

Scott was living in L.A. and I was in Dallas. We did the long distance thing for a while, and visited each other. I didn't want to live in L.A. and he wasn't wild about moving to Dallas. We finally agreed that we could both persue our careers in Orlando, and by Gay Day 2004 we were living in an Orlando apartment while our house was being built in Winderemere/Ocoee (and delayed repeatedly by Hurricanes Charlie, Frances, and Jean). And we got to go back to Pleasure Island every week and were regulars at the Adventurers Club where we made some amazing friends. In 2007 we adopted the most adorable miniature dachshund in the whole world, and named him Tolliver. He makes our family complete.

In September 2008 (the night after they closed the Adventurers Club and the rest of Pleasure Island) we had our "Big Fat Gay Disney Wedding". Our ceremony was on the library stage at the Adventurers Club. We got married at Pleasure Island after having met there.

So that's the Fairy Tale. I met Prince Charming at Disney World. And as married him there, too.

And we lived happily ever after . . .

Not the end.

that's incredibly romantic... :goodvibes
 
that's incredibly romantic... :goodvibes

I know! :woohoo:

I LOVE that we have a "story" to tell, and not just "we met at a bar".

Not that there's anything wrong with meeting at a bar . . .


but you know what I mean.
 
What a nice thread. I love reading everyone's stories, they're so heartwarming. My boyfriend of a year and half and I just broke up a couple weeks ago, it's been so heartbreaking :( Let there be hope :)
 
I'll go!

DF and I did meet at Disney!

In 2004 I did the WDWCP. I moved home once it was done in January but by June I was packing my things and moving back to Orlando where I had two jobs lined up, one using my degree, and the other a weekend job at Disney. I was moving in with my college program roommate who was going down for an Advanced Internship in Guest Relations and I somehow had also managed to get a part time spot in GR as well.

We went through all of the training together and I was treated to all the perks of being an Intern. One of those perks is a scavenger hunt around the MK hosted by the former interns. Well on the night of our scavenger hunt the last clue lead us to the Cinema on Main Street. We got to that last clue fairly quickly and the former interns were banking on us not knowing the person who was maning the Cinema so we would kill a bunch of time. However as soon as we walked in my roommate went running over to this one guy.

Turns out she had met him on our college program at the Adventurers Club and he had told her all about GR and he was basically the reason she applied for the internship. So since my roommate gave him away he had to kill a ton of time and did so by using some of his strategies from the Family Magic Tour and having us march and sing around Town Square. He also had us dance in the middle of Main Street before Spectro.

It was a really fun evening. Though Jeff disappeared at some point during the night and we didn't really talk then he did keep popping up on my radar over the coming weeks. Eventually, after I freaked him out by fake overbooking his VMK tour and he stole my shoes, we had our first date at Boma where he gave me a green crayon. And here we are 4 years later (on Monday) :lovestruc

I like to say he was the last stop on my scavenger hunt :wizard:
 
I met hubby online as well. It was all the way back in 2000 and I was chatting on line with other guys and someone bumped into our convo, "Hi my name's Kenny, what's yours?" :banana: We got to talking and a few days later, I found out my grandpa was dying. I went to Kansas to say goodbye to him adn was surprised to find out that my now hubby called me everyday to make sure everything was ok. We met a week later and dated for six years. He stuck by me even through a disasterous leg injury I suffered two months after graduating from college in 2003 where I crushed my tibia femur bone. We got married in 2006 in a beautiful lodge and had our honeymoon at WDW/cruise.

A year later, I started writing professionally and have been working as a travel writer for a year now. I am now planning to go back to school next month and am hoping to do the CP Program in a years time. Kenny and I will celebrate 10 years next April. :lovestruc

Anna
 
:love:It's not just an urban legend...

We met at a bar on the Jersey Shore.
(We're both locals.)
 
How did I meet my partner? We met at Disney World, of course!

Once upon a time . . . I had planned an getting a large group of friends together for Gay Day 2003. Since I'd also convinced my family to take a trip to WDW in March of 2003 to celebrate Mom & Dad's 35th Anniversary, I bought an annual pass for both trips.

Well, due to lots of unforseen circumstances, my friends cancelled on me one by one. I was bummed, but determined that I was going to use that annual pass, and I was going to Gay Days by myself! So I went to gayday.com and started participating in their discussion forum and weekly online chats. I met a group of people who were going to meet up to hang out together in a "no pressure" type situation. Nobody looking to hook up, just a group of new friends hitting the parks together instead of as individual couples or as singles (there were more couples, though).

We chatted together, and had a great time. Those of us staying at the Carribean Beach Resort even discussed which buildings would be best, and requested Building 45.

I was looking forward to having a great time and meeting some new friends. I WAS NOT looking to meet anyone for anything more than park hopping.

Then I met Scott. He was one of the guys in building 45, and I met him at Pleasure Island at a gayday.com forum mixer. We hit it off immediately, and because we were in the same building, we decided to meet for breakfast the next morning before meeting up with the others at the park. We've been together ever since. That night, on what we consider our "first date" (The date we mark for our anniversary), we went to the Adventurers Club. The first drink he ever bought me was a Kungaloosh. That night we shared our first kiss on the streets of Pleasure Island.

Scott was living in L.A. and I was in Dallas. We did the long distance thing for a while, and visited each other. I didn't want to live in L.A. and he wasn't wild about moving to Dallas. We finally agreed that we could both persue our careers in Orlando, and by Gay Day 2004 we were living in an Orlando apartment while our house was being built in Winderemere/Ocoee (and delayed repeatedly by Hurricanes Charlie, Frances, and Jean). And we got to go back to Pleasure Island every week and were regulars at the Adventurers Club where we made some amazing friends. In 2007 we adopted the most adorable miniature dachshund in the whole world, and named him Tolliver. He makes our family complete.

In September 2008 (the night after they closed the Adventurers Club and the rest of Pleasure Island) we had our "Big Fat Gay Disney Wedding". Our ceremony was on the library stage at the Adventurers Club. We got married at Pleasure Island after having met there.

So that's the Fairy Tale. I met Prince Charming at Disney World. And married him there, too.

And we lived happily ever after . . .

Not the end.

:lovestruc Aww I love that story!!!!! That is so incredibly sweet and romantic!

My story is boring. We met on Myspace. Actually our story is on STVS's website. LOL. Under courtship stories. :lmao:

Here ya go! http://www.stvsvideo.com/courtshipstoryvideo.html
 
DF and I met by fate, we are convinced! It has a bit of a background that I always like to tell because it really shows how it was so easy for us NOT to meet...

Back in fall of '05, my boyfriend at the time had gotten me a job working at a retail store for a wireless service provider. (I had interviewed and later found out that he knew a manager there, so after I completely destroyed my interview, his acquaintance did him a favor!) The store I had started at closed down, but they moved me to another one that was right across the street. In the meantime, DF moved up to NY from Georgia in the summer of '06 after a friend of his who had recently moved up here said he had a spare bedroom and asked if he wanted to move up, too. He worked for the same company down south, so he transferred up here. He originally applied to my store in Brooklyn for some reason (he was living across the bridge in Staten Island at the time so it was odd he would choose to apply there and pay a large toll every day) but he did not get called for an interview, so he started work in NJ. After a couple of months, he reapplied to my store and got called for interview. The deciding factor in DF getting hired? The acquaintance of my boyfriend at the time! :rotfl:Two interviews later, he started working with me in November '06! As soon as I saw him, I was speechless. I always tell him I heard violins and time stood still and that we shook hands and locked eyes for at least 30 seconds when we first met. He disagrees with the movie I have pictured in my head. :lmao:Really, my co worker and I thought he was rude because we waited hours for him to introduce himself to us and we ended up just going over to him ourselves. :rotfl2:He was just shy!

We didn't talk much at first because we both were nervous - it was very cute puppy dog crushes at first. After awhile, we started to get to know each other and became work buddies. We had a lot of free time on our hands at work, so we'd play internet games and talk. I did not tell anyone that I was developing feelings for him, but the more time went on the more and more I liked him and realized there was a reason for this and I needed to do something. I had always had problems with my boyfriend at the time; despite him treating me like a princess, we had a lot of other problems and there was no chemistry, it was a brother-sister relationship. After a DIFFICULT breakup (and by difficult, I mean he turned psycho!) I started pursuing DF. I knew all along he liked me, I am usually not good with that kind of thing at all, but I could really feel it this time. A Coworker and I invited some of our other coworkers out to a bar after work. We hung out a couple of times like that before we finally expressed to each other that we liked each other. That was June '07 and the rest is history! We moved in together last year and got engaged back in March in...DISNEY WORLD, but of course! ;-)

My favorite part of this whole story is this, though: Right before he moved up here, DF's mom asked him why he wanted to leave Georgia for NY, and he said to her "it's my destiny." :love: He was soooo right! :lovestruc
 
Our story began years ago........................

My DH was a senior and I was a sophmore (1987)...he ran with the party, theater, punk rocker click..I was a football/basketball cheerleader (he says I was a snob, but I beg to differ!). It was a small high school (500 total) so you kind of knew who everyone was.

A few years later (January 1991) I recieved a letter in the mail from a soldier in the Gulf War. At first I was puzzled, I didn't know anyone serving in the war. Well when I opened and read the letter, it was from the partier, theater, punk rocker kid from high school. I was taken back that he had written me a letter. I only knew him to say,"hi", in the hallway of school and that was 4 years ago. In his letter he wrote about all the different situations over there, and that he was just remembering my warm smile and took a chance and wrote to me (he had asked a friend from home to look up my address). We started writting back and forth for months. Then one day while at work (I was working at a hair salon back then) the door opened and in walked a man in his army dress uniform. My heart dropped. It was one of those experiences when you know in that second your life has changed. When ever he was home on leave we would go out-still just friends-talking and laughing for hours. In late September 1991 he finished his tour in the army, and moved back to our town. On October 3, 1991 we went on our first "real" date. June 5, 1992 he asked me to marry him, at a stop sign with traffic behind us (how romantic:laughing:), and October 3, 1993 we were married.

We now have 3 terrific children, and this past fall celebrated our 15 year anniversay. Where/how did we celebrate? Adults only trip to WDW!!!
 
Our story began years ago........................

My DH was a senior and I was a sophmore (1987)...he ran with the party, theater, punk rocker click..I was a football/basketball cheerleader (he says I was a snob, but I beg to differ!). It was a small high school (500 total) so you kind of knew who everyone was.

A few years later (January 1991) I recieved a letter in the mail from a soldier in the Gulf War. At first I was puzzled, I didn't know anyone serving in the war. Well when I opened and read the letter, it was from the partier, theater, punk rocker kid from high school. I was taken back that he had written me a letter. I only knew him to say,"hi", in the hallway of school and that was 4 years ago. In his letter he wrote about all the different situations over there, and that he was just remembering my warm smile and took a chance and wrote to me (he had asked a friend from home to look up my address). We started writting back and forth for months. Then one day while at work (I was working at a hair salon back then) the door opened and in walked a man in his army dress uniform. My heart dropped. It was one of those experiences when you know in that second your life has changed. When ever he was home on leave we would go out-still just friends-talking and laughing for hours. In late September 1991 he finished his tour in the army, and moved back to our town. On October 3, 1991 we went on our first "real" date. June 5, 1992 he asked me to marry him, at a stop sign with traffic behind us (how romantic:laughing:), and October 3, 1993 we were married.

We now have 3 terrific children, and this past fall celebrated our 15 year anniversay. Where/how did we celebrate? Adults only trip to WDW!!!


AWWW! ROMANTIC!:love:
 
I'll go!

DF and I did meet at Disney!

In 2004 I did the WDWCP. I moved home once it was done in January but by June I was packing my things and moving back to Orlando where I had two jobs lined up, one using my degree, and the other a weekend job at Disney. I was moving in with my college program roommate who was going down for an Advanced Internship in Guest Relations and I somehow had also managed to get a part time spot in GR as well.

We went through all of the training together and I was treated to all the perks of being an Intern. One of those perks is a scavenger hunt around the MK hosted by the former interns. Well on the night of our scavenger hunt the last clue lead us to the Cinema on Main Street. We got to that last clue fairly quickly and the former interns were banking on us not knowing the person who was maning the Cinema so we would kill a bunch of time. However as soon as we walked in my roommate went running over to this one guy.

Turns out she had met him on our college program at the Adventurers Club and he had told her all about GR and he was basically the reason she applied for the internship. So since my roommate gave him away he had to kill a ton of time and did so by using some of his strategies from the Family Magic Tour and having us march and sing around Town Square. He also had us dance in the middle of Main Street before Spectro.

It was a really fun evening. Though Jeff disappeared at some point during the night and we didn't really talk then he did keep popping up on my radar over the coming weeks. Eventually, after I freaked him out by fake overbooking his VMK tour and he stole my shoes, we had our first date at Boma where he gave me a green crayon. And here we are 4 years later (on Monday) :lovestruc

I like to say he was the last stop on my scavenger hunt :wizard:

I think that Bomas is a great place for a first date!!! I met my DH in 2006 when we did the CP. (I also worked on main street) He took me to Bomas for our first date 3 1/2 years ago!!!!
 
well our story doesn't involve disney, altho i have turned him into a disney convert!!! after our frist trip together there in 03 he wanted to quit our jobs and go work in the canadian pavillion!


we met new years eve 97- online in a chat room. he said any ladies from the east coast of canada in here, my timid little self typed yep i am....we made plans to meet at chapters the 6th of january 98(coincidently enough my moms due date with me in 78). we talked for hours, he told me about his tours overseas and i told him my wally hole horror stories.....strangely enough i was going to blow him off that day! ;) our second date was to go see titanic- left the movie and his pathfinder had been stolen!!!! thankfully he didn't take it as a bad sign! lol

along the way we found more coincidenses....his best frineds wife, knew me when i was little, she worked with my mom....his mom and my mom have the same name....he shares the same middle name as my step dad. uber creepy all these coinscisenses....we were menat to be!!

in may after only 5 months together he propsed, kind of- saying to me im just picturing you in a white dress. since i was only 20 we were going to keep it a secret...by the end of august and him being a province away training i had my engagement ring. we married the next year, october 16th, 1999.....

we are celebrating an early tenth wedding anniversary there with the kids this october....once again he will be away training with the military....love a man in uniform!!!
 












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