OK. Splitting our hotel stay may not be the best idea for us....
Taking into consideration the thoughts/experiences shared made me realize my plans may not be in line with my goals.
I had to ask myself, what’s my intent? To have a magical (for my 4yo), as stress free as possible (for me), affordable (for the Hubbie) family vacation to Disney World.
At my sons age, is the magic of Disney mostly centered around MK? The other parks will be great experiences too, but is the magic/awe/wonderment that comes to mind mostly centered around the experiences and shows in the magical kingdom?
If so, maybe I should select a hotel more easily accessible to that park? (Initially we intended to relax on our day of arrival at AKL, spend 3 full days touring the parks and then have a leisurely day to rest before returning home.) Instead, maybe we should spend 2 days at MK, 4 days total at the parks? Possibly base our trip at BLT for proximity and convenience? (All of which are more expensive

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So many new questions to sort out.
1-How much time will we actually spend at our hotel. (Naps? I had assumed we would nap (and enjoy the mid-day view) but at AKL it would not be logistically advisable. At BTL- No problem)
2- To rope drop? Or not? (Trying to stay ahead of long lines with an impatient preschooler. Rope dropping from AKL is challenging for a first timer)
3- After reviewing the list of attractions and wait times for the parks, is MK the one park likely to need additional time?
4- If we only tackled 1/3 to 1/5 of the attractions at MK, would we be disappointed we didn’t allocate more time at Disney?
Sorry if this is a lot, or possibly not the right forum. The discussion about splitting nights made me consider the strategic planning of our trip in a way I had not previously considered.