Wow. Lots of good advice.
I love our home, but it is costing over $3000 a year to heat and my electric bill is over $400 a month and my water bill is over $375 per quarter. Taxes are $8500 a year.
Our current house is maintenance free (we built it that way), other than needing an interior painting. Hardwood floors on first floor (custom), with all granite in kitchen and baths (4.5 baths, 3 bedrooms, 900 sq ft playroom upstairs). We have two staircases in the house for ease of movement. The layout is perfect. Lots of room and the rooms are very large. (3 car garage). The basement is not finished.
I think we can sell for about $700 or 800k and buy an 1800 or 2000 sq ft house for about $400k, in the same town.
We're not living on sandwiches, but certain times of the month, the bills add up and get me very fustrated. I am only able to save about $20k a year, which is not enough for "getting old." We have savings but, again, I don't think it's enough to live on when we get older.
Just an fyi: WE are two adults, 1 child (10 years) and 1 dog.
I certainly cannot predict the future, but I want to be prepared. And, if something happens to me and/or DH, then my son is taken care of.