Obi-Wan Pinobi
<font color=red>Jedi moderator who likes to live o
- Joined
- Apr 26, 2001
- Messages
- 9,424
I have a question for anyone versed in the conditions of a hostile work enviroment and what it entails.
I'm posting this question regarding something that my wife is going through. Some of you might have read about the ongoing saga on this thread . Here is a basic rundown of what is happening.
My wife is a retail manager with the same company for over 20 yrs. She is good at what she does, her store landed in the top 5% of the company in customer service, she had the highest score in the district for loss prevention, her sales are not at plan but literally no stores are making plan. She was told on her bi-annual review though that where he sales are at as of that time were right on track where the company expected them to be. She has practically no turnover and only lost one person this year and it was due to them not working out. She rarely has anyone leave disgruntled. Mainly when people leave it's because of a move or that they have graduated, gotten married, etc.
She has had an employee as her assistant - I'll call him Al - for a few years, he held other positions prior to that. The past year has been a difficult one with him and my wife. My wife was out of work for 2 months last year due to health reasons (she has a rare autoimmune disease) and while she was gone and Al was in charge, the store went to hell in a handbasket. When he realized he could not do her job, he became very angry and took that anger out on her by accusing her of doing things that were untrue. Her boss at the time did nothing about it. She "thought" she worked through the issues until just recently.
Al has taken to drinking a lot. He admits to the employees in the store that he needs to drink an entire bottle of wine to fall asleep at night. My wife has found his job performance to be readily slipping and has had to correct him more and more on simple tasks. This has caused him to become outraged again. She also found out that, even though she told him to cut it out, he had been talking about other employees to another behind their backs and saying things that could constitute harassment (calling them stupid, ********, old, senile, etc) She had the employees that approached her write statements and called her boss about it who took it to HR. She was instructed to write him up and her boss to be present and if he ever says a word like that again, he is gone.
In the process of waiting for the time that the boss could be there with her (she lives in another town) several employees approached my wife and told her to be careful and watch her back. When she inquired further, they admitted that he is telling everyone that he will do whatever it takes to have her fired. She found out that he has been reporting her to loss prevention and to her boss for random things and all of them have been absolutely unfounded. To the point where they never even told her that he had accused her of these things. They also told her that he refers to her in derogatory terms when mentioning her to employees (word that rhymes with witch). He gloats behind her back that he will make sure that she loses her job if it's the last thing he does.
When my wife told her boss that she was upset that he was allowed to constantly make unfounded accusations against her and that she considered that harassment, she was told that the company won't tell him to knock it off and that he can say whatever he wants to about her. Basically they feel it is okay that he can play his little witch hunt game and allow her to feel scared that one of these times someone might actually believe his lies and fire her.
After the meeting with the write up happened, it only inflamed him. He is going from person to person telling them that my wife got him in trouble by calling anonymously to the corporate office and telling lies about him and that he will get even. He is constantly trying to one up her - butting between her and customers, telling employees not to talk to her about things, etc.
To me, this company is allowing this to become a hostile workplace for her. As I mentioned, she has a rare autoimmune disorder that is greatly affected by excessive stress. Just this monday she was in so much pain she could barely walk and was having fever spikes from 100 degrees to 104 degrees in a matter of 5 minutes, but she continued to do her job out of fear of what he would say. I'm afraid that this nut, if he doesn't manage to get her fired, will kill her from the stress. She already has a weakened heart due to the autoimmune disease and I really don't think that the fever spikes coming that drastically is doing her any good.
I did a tiny amount of research regarding hostile workplaces and saw this website - http://www.itstime.com/apr97.htm#update
Are any of you out there versed in this type of problem? Any advice on what we should do? I almost feel like I should tell her to talk to a lawyer.
I'm posting this question regarding something that my wife is going through. Some of you might have read about the ongoing saga on this thread . Here is a basic rundown of what is happening.
My wife is a retail manager with the same company for over 20 yrs. She is good at what she does, her store landed in the top 5% of the company in customer service, she had the highest score in the district for loss prevention, her sales are not at plan but literally no stores are making plan. She was told on her bi-annual review though that where he sales are at as of that time were right on track where the company expected them to be. She has practically no turnover and only lost one person this year and it was due to them not working out. She rarely has anyone leave disgruntled. Mainly when people leave it's because of a move or that they have graduated, gotten married, etc.
She has had an employee as her assistant - I'll call him Al - for a few years, he held other positions prior to that. The past year has been a difficult one with him and my wife. My wife was out of work for 2 months last year due to health reasons (she has a rare autoimmune disease) and while she was gone and Al was in charge, the store went to hell in a handbasket. When he realized he could not do her job, he became very angry and took that anger out on her by accusing her of doing things that were untrue. Her boss at the time did nothing about it. She "thought" she worked through the issues until just recently.
Al has taken to drinking a lot. He admits to the employees in the store that he needs to drink an entire bottle of wine to fall asleep at night. My wife has found his job performance to be readily slipping and has had to correct him more and more on simple tasks. This has caused him to become outraged again. She also found out that, even though she told him to cut it out, he had been talking about other employees to another behind their backs and saying things that could constitute harassment (calling them stupid, ********, old, senile, etc) She had the employees that approached her write statements and called her boss about it who took it to HR. She was instructed to write him up and her boss to be present and if he ever says a word like that again, he is gone.
In the process of waiting for the time that the boss could be there with her (she lives in another town) several employees approached my wife and told her to be careful and watch her back. When she inquired further, they admitted that he is telling everyone that he will do whatever it takes to have her fired. She found out that he has been reporting her to loss prevention and to her boss for random things and all of them have been absolutely unfounded. To the point where they never even told her that he had accused her of these things. They also told her that he refers to her in derogatory terms when mentioning her to employees (word that rhymes with witch). He gloats behind her back that he will make sure that she loses her job if it's the last thing he does.
When my wife told her boss that she was upset that he was allowed to constantly make unfounded accusations against her and that she considered that harassment, she was told that the company won't tell him to knock it off and that he can say whatever he wants to about her. Basically they feel it is okay that he can play his little witch hunt game and allow her to feel scared that one of these times someone might actually believe his lies and fire her.
After the meeting with the write up happened, it only inflamed him. He is going from person to person telling them that my wife got him in trouble by calling anonymously to the corporate office and telling lies about him and that he will get even. He is constantly trying to one up her - butting between her and customers, telling employees not to talk to her about things, etc.
To me, this company is allowing this to become a hostile workplace for her. As I mentioned, she has a rare autoimmune disorder that is greatly affected by excessive stress. Just this monday she was in so much pain she could barely walk and was having fever spikes from 100 degrees to 104 degrees in a matter of 5 minutes, but she continued to do her job out of fear of what he would say. I'm afraid that this nut, if he doesn't manage to get her fired, will kill her from the stress. She already has a weakened heart due to the autoimmune disease and I really don't think that the fever spikes coming that drastically is doing her any good.
I did a tiny amount of research regarding hostile workplaces and saw this website - http://www.itstime.com/apr97.htm#update
Are any of you out there versed in this type of problem? Any advice on what we should do? I almost feel like I should tell her to talk to a lawyer.
