lsyorke
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 2, 2002
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DR: It looks like you have pneumonia related to your HIV.
MIL: What?!?!?
DR: Pneumonia related to your HIV
MIL: Are you saying I have HIV?
DR: Yeah (said it kind of mockingly in a "duh" sort of way)
DR: Have you ever been tested?
MIL: Yes, in 1995
DR: Okay
Then the doctor left. Then nurses started coming in to give MIL all kinds of HIV/ AIDS literature. MIL had to sign documents saying she received all of this. She had to sign documents saying it was okay for them to bill her insurance and tell them the diagnosis. She kept asking to speak for the doctor and they kept telling her "Just a minute," but he never came. They finally admitted her into the hospital and left her there alone until the next morning.
Did she ever tell the doctor or anyone else that she tested negative?
You should not have been left alone.
And who did he think should have been with her? Look, I'm not saying that they should have jumped to conclusions, but if you see pneumocystis, the first thought is HIV, unless the patient has been recently tested negative. I love doctors who make statements(like the one quoted above) which make no sense at all. Who did he think should have stayed with her? It's a statement that makes the medical profession look bad, when in reality it's a "make the family feel better" nonsensical statement. People who get bad diagnosis' don't get someone assigned to sit with them.
