I think it depends on your kids. I have two DSs. When my youngest was little the princesses were his thing, so we booked the castle - and they both loved it! It is a really neat atmosphere, the food is good, etc. Now that he is older he still loves these meals and my older son does, too. We have done both Akerhaus and CRT a couple of times each. CRT is definitely better - the atmosphere of eating in the castle can't be beat! They do get swords, wishing stars, etc. I think if you don't point out it's a "girly" thing it won't be. Neither of my boys have ever questioned if they should be there.