My family thought the meal was very good at H&V. The Fantasmic seats were basically a bonus since we would have eaten somewhere in that price range anyway. Some tips:
1)A waitress said to get to the garage/alley entrance door at least 45minutes early, but at our time of year (late Aug.) that was unnecessary, 15-25 minutes would have been fine. You can generally judge how early to get to the garage/alley door by park attendance.
2)The bathrooms and concessions are farther from the FDPackage seats than from most of the regular seats, which is not good for a 4YO who just loaded up on sweet tea and who is prone to wait until the last moment to warn about nature's call. To quote Maxwell Smart, "missed it by THAT much."
3) When it was over, they didn't let us exit by the garage alley door through which we entered (about 100 feet from the park exits) , instead we had to go out the alley door closer to the main Fantasmic entrance, near the shops, which caught is in the traffic jam of people leaving the main seating. Thus their nefarious marketing ploy worked on us-- we bought (too much) stuff in those darn shops while waiting for the massive crowd to thin... but, ah, oh well, the kids are only this young once

Next time however, we shall take a cab to leave (not much waiting time for tho$e).
4) Seats were fine, but one or more crowd control CMS seemed a bit inflexible (by training I'm sure), as someone I saw who tried to go down to the front row of a column of seats that hadn't even started filling yet was seemingly told (couldn't hear but saw the scene) that he couldn't , he had to sit where fate of arrival time put him, in the middle of a previous column. So if you want a particular type of row, front or back, don't get in the line of people being seated exactly when you get to the venue, wait back and hop in the line of people seating at the correct moment for the area of seats you want.