Hey...NEED HELP!!PLEASE READ!

[skater4life990]

Hey i like this girl at my skool but i dont know how to tell her. The only bad thing is that she is goin out with sum1 else but he lives in europe! there is a dressy dance at my skool in 2 months and i want to ask her bout i dont no what to do?

 

[2HOT2touch]

do you talk to her alot?
if you do just ask her about the dance. if not start talking to her and have it come up in a conversation.

 

[skater4life990]

yea i talk to her all the time. i just dont no what she'll do caz shes in LOVE with her bf. im up with big competition

 

[2HOT2touch]

but she lives in the US???? how old is she???? and how old is he????? and how old are u???

 

[skater4life990]

yea she lives in the usa. she goes to the same skool as me. im 13, shes 14 and hes 17

 

[skater4life990]

well im goin to be 14 in 2 weeks

 

[polysisterchick]

if she doesn't have a date suggest you two go together as friends because if she is in love with her bf what can you do?? You could tell her how you feel but that might make it awkward but then again she might realize she likes you so there is a 50/50 chance here.
but either way ask her to go to the dance with you!!! you could have a fun time!

 

[skater4life990]

ok thanx. i think ill ask her but then tell her how i feel after the dance.

 

[2HOT2touch]

o wow, thats like illegal. fisrt off, she doesnt even know what love is and second he is most likely ceating on her expecially if he lives in a different country, i mean forget the zip code rule my god hes in a DIFFERENT COUNTRY!!!!!!!!!! im sorry, but thats realy sick, and she has no idea what she is doing and how illegal that is. well for your situation, if you realy wanna go with her, jus t talk to her about it and like ask if you could go as just friends or somwthing, and you never know it could go further from there.

 

[polysisterchick]

o wow, thats like illegal. fisrt off, she doesnt even know what love is and second he is most likely ceating on her expecially if he lives in a different country, i mean forget the zip code rule my god hes in a DIFFERENT COUNTRY!!!!!!!!!! im sorry, but thats realy sick, and she has no idea what she is doing and how illegal that is. well for your situation, if you realy wanna go with her, jus t talk to her about it and like ask if you could go as just friends or somwthing, and you never know it could go further from there.

yea i agree with 2hot2touch it is sick, cuz he could be cheating on her and she is totally oblivious to it.....just remember that if you decide to tell her follow your heart!!!

 

[Florida_luvr924]

Yeah you know those europeans!

 

[skater4life990]

i no. he lives in checoslavakia(if spelt right) nd is 17. i think he is cheating on her caz he is so far away nd nos that he wont get caught but if i talk to her maybe she will choose me caz its a little more practical. she has liked me before but it was before she met him.

 

[polysisterchick]

Yeah you know those europeans!

lol!
I know that is mean but the timing is so totally random!!!!

reminds me of something a guy said in my class--
man, I hate the french-oh no! Im french, Dang it!!!
(srry to those who are french but had to say it!!!)

 

[polysisterchick]

i no. he lives in checoslavakia(if spelt right) nd is 17. i think he is cheating on her caz he is so far away nd nos that he wont get caught but if i talk to her maybe she will choose me caz its a little more practical. she has liked me before but it was before she met him.

if you really like her-don't give up on her!!! try to get her to realize that he IS probably cheating on her...

 

[skater4life990]

yea i no but i dont no how to do that with out bein mean

 

[2HOT2touch]

just tell her that ITS ILLEGAL!!!!!!!!!! and tell her tha teenage boys are jerks and cheat on girls all the time and its really bad. and just be there to comfort her.

 

[skater4life990]

i guess but if i do it so up front then she'll be mad at me caz i tried to break her up and thats def not a way to get a girl

 

[HollisterSweetie]

No, Just be yourself, don't go around telling her how she shouldn't be with her boyfriend, but treat her reallly well and....if she's still into you you'll be able to tell.

 

[skater4life990]

ur right
thanx

 

[HollisterSweetie]

ur right
thanx

No Problem *&* Good luck!!