IMHP ~ Owen will succeed despite where you put him. He seems to be happy with his situation and obviously you have handled it well. I think sometimes very bright children get upset and bored because they hear Mom and Dad talk about how much brighter they are than others and how a teacher is not "meeting their needs". However, there are kids who identify that problem themselves. Those who are happy will succeed despite their situation, I think. My John is bright, but is perfectly happy being a sixth grader like everyone else. He will do fine. Now, if he were coming home upset, frustrated, and crying bored, I'd have to intervene and fine a way to keep him learning at the rate he "needs".
25 students is A LOT especially for a priviate school. Hey, you are paying them "big bucks" and you have every right to complain about class sizes and given your tuition, I would probably complain! Here, we have mostly 21-24, but with public funding, we do the best we can as far as class size. Research overwhelmingly shows that class size is NOT a factor, but I will deny that belief that until the day I die. I am amazed at how different my year is with just 20. I haven't had under 23 in YEARS! I know my girlfriend in Cincinnati has her children in a private school and the have a 8:1 ratio. That's unbelievably awesome! I am alone with my 20! However, she seems to think that her kids are not "exposed" to certain situations like my kids in public..............phooey!!! Kids are kids and they learn "stuff" no matter where they are educated!
As far as your parenting Kathy (oh, you too Ted!!), I know from meeting Owen and Amy that you are doing what is right. You have raised them to be "comfortable" with their surroundings. They are not arrogant, which is what some kids tend to be when their parents "push" them. As long as Owen is happy, I would be happy too. As far as the student who can "hardly read", I would say to that........it's good that Owen knows that there are people out there in the world that are like that. He's probably going to be that person's supervisor someday, so the social interraction is EXTREMELY important. If he can "cope" with them now, he will do fine later in life. Kids need to know that we all are DIFFERENT and that's o.k.!
My soap box is over.........................
JoAnn I am sorry that you have to end your party early. But, I am glad you can still work it in!!! This is going to be a blast!
Debi Just tell me what time to be ready and I'll go anywhere! I know I will be smiling all weekend just having a blast!
Lucy, oh Lucy??? Hello? Are you lurking, or have you really deserted us?? How was the show????
Lynn I anxiously await to hear how you are feeling! I am worried about you!
