I like the silver necklace, or bracelets. For a girl in a group home I wouldn't get the Teddy bear, stuffed animal route-they don't usually have a lot of personal room plus the money would be better spent on things she can use-but still fun and valentiney. If you go the red or pink route you could get her a long scarf in either color very big among the girls right now, belt, socks, nail polish, lipstick, leggings, cami's, T shirt, earrings, Lots of stuff!! You can always throw in a bag of Ghirredeli squares in a red bag if you wanted to get something sweet or some other small amount of choc.