Look for convention tickets at
www.disneymeetings.com You do know that kids 2 and under get into the park for free, kids 3 and under eat for free at the buffets in WDW. Lots of Christmas stuff to see at the resorts- all are decorated and have their own trees and you can roam around soaking up the pretties for free. Electrical water pageant is free, can be viewed from Polynesian beach at 9, works its way around to Contemporary by 10. Go to Downtown Disney (stay OUT of World of Disney if you want to really save money..LOL).
Lego store has building area, Potato Head store has computers where the kids can make Potato Head postcards for free (nieces 3&6 yo love this). Go to
www.ghirardelli.com, sign up for g-mail and tell them you have a store within 50 miles and they'll send you a buy one get one free coupon for SUNDAES!!! (this has an expiration date so only sign up within one month of your trip). DTD will be all decorated for the holidays and there is usually free entertainment- school groups singing carols, high school bands, etc. Go to Boardwalk Inn, walk thru and out on to the Boardwalk. Lots of fun, especially at night, street entertainers, face painting, one man band, etc. Ride the friendship launches from the Boardwalk over to MGM and back, or go to POFQ and take the boat to Downtown Disney.
Your kids are kind-of young to get the full advantage of
MVMCP as the park is open from 7-midnight, $36 advance price for adults, $25 for kids (but you don't need a regular park admission...). This is a good way to see MK without the crowds IF you can stay up late enough to wait for folks to leave, but your kids might not be the best company by 10pm! Make sure they see Fantasmic and Osborne Lights at MGM. In epcot, in the plaza behind Spaceship Earth(the big golf ball) there is a fountain with about 100 spray jets that are color-and-spurt coordinated to Christmas carols. Also look for the fiber optic pavement when you are in this area at night...kids love this, it is kinda like walking on Pixie Dust! Also look for Santas in each pavillion in world showcase (epcot) and for the various kid's tables, where they can make a craft or decorate a mask with CM's from the various countries (free- except for park admission!). Food-wise, you really can share counter service meals. We are big eaters and one double cheeseburger combo with an extra bun feeds two people at lunch. Servings at most locations are huge, and sometimes family meals are available that serve lots (Pecos Bill's used to have a whole roast chicken with mashed potatoes for about $15). Go to
www.allearsnet.com and check out the menus and prices to help with budgeting lunch. Remember at counter service, adults can eat kids meals for lunch, leaving space for that mickey bar you are going to eat later that afternoon anyhow! BTW, young kids don't get the idea of eating a huge late b'fast and skipping lunch, so don't decide to splurge for a late character b'fast and then going without eating until supper. Your little ones will clamour for food before your PS, happily eat one piece of toast (maybe) at the character meal, then want lunch at the usual time...TRUST ME, the most expensive meal my DD ever had at WDW was at the CP when she was 5...$9.99 plus tax and all she ate was one slice of toast!