Nope to growing up in Raleigh--never even been to NC. Sorry.
Yeah, we thought about Charlotte, but we have a friend with a daughter named Charlotte & it's a little too Sex in the City for me. Also thought about Charlize, but didn't want people to think we were naming her after the actress.
The funny thing is though, my name is nothing even close to Charlie. I just had two older sisters and my dad to be funny one day when I was a baby called me Charlie (boy name) and it stuck until elementary school. I guess since they call people by their "real" names at school & my name is no where near a Charlie, it just sort of died out.