It helps to soothe the excitment because you will feel just like a child. Since you have a few months

, look at the allears.net web site to look at menus, etc. They have change some but not too much. Make a list of the ones you think your family would like, maybe make an itinerary, which you will change many times

. Then this winter talk to your family, especially the boys and have their in put as to what they would like, you know, character meals, rides, special events, fireworks. Don't forget that you can make ressies 180 prior to your scheduled arrival date.
I have reservations for WLR beginning 7/31/20 through 7/7/10 and I have already made an itinerary, including meals. I spent about 3 hours working on it this week-end. There is a itinerary page you can go to on waltdisneyresorts.com. You click on the luggage, my vacation, and there is an itinerary page. It's a great worksheet.
Since your boys are so young don't forget that they might like some of the things at Ft. Wilderness like the petting zoo, pony rides, campfires w/movies (Chip 'n Dale are present) and hayrides. Just suggestions because they are often overlooked.