Help! My husband is retiring...

having had military care and private insurance, I'm afraid I disagree with you.
Why so? I married into an Air Force family where unfortunately multiple family members have had lengthy hospital stays (months) due to terminal illnesses and the out of pocket was zero with all with Tricare.
 
Why so? I married into an Air Force family where unfortunately multiple family members have had lengthy hospital stays (months) due to terminal illnesses and the out of pocket was zero with all with Tricare.
Lot's of places don't take Tricare, and retired Tricare isn't free, you still have to pay 20%.
If they have VA coverage than it is free for the service member.
 
Lot's of places don't take Tricare, and retired Tricare isn't free, you still have to pay 20%.
If they have VA coverage than it is free for the service member.

I have been an active duty spouse for over 20 years. The kids and I have always used civilian doctors via Tricare and have never once had a problem finding providers that take Tricare. It's actually just done under contract with United Healthcare (west region) and Humana (east region).

When my husband retires in 2 years, we will keep our same doctors. Our out of pocket is currently capped at $1000 per year (for all of us) and when we retire, we will pay an annual enrollment fee of $300 for all 4 of us and out out of pocket max will be $3500/year. It's a stellar bargain regardless. With that plan, you can see any doctor you want and self refer for specialty care. It's what we currently do.

I cannot wait until my husband can start seeing civilian doctors. Military and VA healthcare is an absolute joke. He will never step foot into VA hospital again once he has completed all his outgoing VA exams. He has been dealing with a back injury for over 10 years and after spending the entire day in the Naval Hospital ER yesterday, the doctor said "if this happens again MAYBE we can refer you for an MRI." 🙄
 
Lot's of places don't take Tricare, and retired Tricare isn't free, you still have to pay 20%.
If they have VA coverage than it is free for the service member.

@tvguy - I wrote a page for you but I'm having sort of technical problem with Disboards, so I'm not even sure this will post.

But, unlike when you probably married into a family that was using what I will call direct military care, it was somewhat different. Tricare is sort of 'you get what you pay for' and that's okay, but with my private health care plan, I have a lot more choice. It's not the same as it was.
 

Lot's of places don't take Tricare, and retired Tricare isn't free, you still have to pay 20%.
If they have VA coverage than it is free for the service member.
You know, I have heard that they were talking about changing Tricare depending on when you retired, but that happened after any of my family members retired. They pay nothing for any care for the service member or dependents care. Everybody takes Tricare here, HOWEVER, I live in Sacramento where we have 2 active Air Force Bases in the area, 2 closed Air Force bases with a huge number of retirees, 3 Army Depots (all closed with tons or retirees) so that is a huge group of people covered.
Oh, the VA. Yes, we have a VA hospital at what used to be Mather Air Force base. VA is a mess. A former co-worker had a massive coronary and VA refused to pay the ambulance bill because he didn't request prior authorization! He was unconscious on the floor near death! Fortunately, he hooked up with an advocate whose appeals kept getting rejected, but continuing pushing forward until they got the appeal someone with authority to order the VA to pay the bill.
When my mom passed away, I found all the VA materials my dad kept. He was terminally ill and had to fight for 2 years to finally get the VA to approve a burial plot for him. And years earlier, they rejected his request for a VA mortgage. Said a $29,500 home (in 1960) was more home than he was qualified for. That despite the fact the commercial lenders had no issue with such a mortgage......oh.......and the fact that he had the cash in the bank to buy the house, which is ultimately what he did, paid cash instead of getting a mortgage. The VA is a disgrace to our service members.
 
@tvguy - I wrote a page for you but I'm having sort of technical problem with Disboards, so I'm not even sure this will post.

But, unlike when you probably married into a family that was using what I will call direct military care, it was somewhat different. Tricare is sort of 'you get what you pay for' and that's okay, but with my private health care plan, I have a lot more choice. It's not the same as it was.
Yes, the DIS has been messed up today. I really think when you retired is the determining factor on whether you are on Tricare and what it covers. My wife's brother in law passed away a year ago at age 75. He retired in 1983 with 30 years service credit and my wife's step sister paid nothing for anything with his terminal illness.
 
Definitely between #2 and #3.
Dad died at age 64 and 6 months.
He had retired after 20 years in the military, so Mom has Tricare and it is FABULOUS compared to private insurance.
He had NOT stated his 2nd career's pension plan (was planning to wait until age 65). The company had declared bankruptcy and the Pension Guarantee Fund took over, when Dad was 62yo, but he was there more than 25 years.
That pension offered:
For participant only:
a. one time cash payout
b. guaranteed amount for 5 yrs or 10 yrs
c. lifetime annuity (no spousal option chosen)
d. annuity for life and for spouse:
Participant takes a lower amount and upon death, spouse receives 50% of the lifetime annuity amount upon participant's death, for spouse's remaining lifetime.
The spouse must sign off on the plan chosen.

IF the plan option had been chosen before death, that choice was made, even if the participant had not started the pension.

IF your husband wants to wait to start his 2nd career pension, then read the plan carefully before deciding if your husband should choose an election and lock it in. HR departments tend to try to get that option chosen when the employee leaves the company.

The pension plan management was SHOCKED when they found out that Dad hadn't chosen an election and signed the form when the company was dissolved. Mom would have received nothing under the terms if he and she had chosen elections a through c.

Another consideration:
I am currently looking at 3 pensions with elections (62yo). 2 of the 3 sent me options to start early, due to changes in pension plan funding laws at the end of Pres. Obama's term and the laws took effect within the 1st 6 months of Pres. Trump's term.
At that time, i chose to leave the money in the pensions and not start any elections.
I should have read the terms more carefully.

2 of the plans are guaranteed fixed monthly annuity amounts. I can choose a cash payout onetime amount or a reduced amount (onetime or monthly annuity) if i start earlier than age 65yo.
1 of those 2 plans actually WILL increase the amount if i choose to wait until i am older, up to age 70yo to start. The other plan will not give me any more if i start later and will NOT give any payments missed if i do not file to start at age 65 yo, at least 90 days in advance of the 1st full month after i turn 65yo.
Note: when i left the companies, after qualifying for the pensions, the plans give a monthly annuity $ amount ,that is locked in at an age 65 amount.

The plan that gave me an early payout option (either monthly annuity or onetime amount) offered much less per month and the onetime amount could not be invested "safely" to yield the guaranteed fixed monthly amount at age 65yo. I took the offers to my IRA administrator and he couldn't find a way to yield close to that amount for the onetime amount and the monthly offer was too low to take.

The 3rd plan is a cash balance pension. The company put $ into the pension every year that i worked there and the interest on those funds has been credited each year. With the interest rates so low, the annuity amounts are drastically different than if i had started the plan 3 and half years ago.
IF i had started at age 58 yo,(locked it in then), i would actually be receiving the same amount now than if i start the fixed annuity today. So, I've lost 3 and a half years of the annuity amount. The projection then was that i would receive 57% more at age 65, so i elected to wait. If i wait the 3 years now, it is only 6.4% more.
The cash balance has increased by the annual interest each year.
Making things more "interesting".
In August, the company sent a letter that they were requesting a change to existing plans, that if the annuity company dissolved the annuity, (as in, LOST the $ , as happened most notably with a German investment firm last year and affected many state/large pension plans), the employer will NOT be responsible for continuing to pay those annuities!
The company is also requesting that if the company pension plans do NOT meet the funding requirements at the end of the fiscal year, that they not be required to add that funding to the pension funds, due to the current economic conditions.
IF i am reading the Economic Stimulus bill correctly, they may have at least partial approval.

Last week, after researching the company, i decided to request the cash balance to be transfered to my IRA.

Sorry to be so long, but the 3rd pension has me worried.
hth
 
So....a lot of this comes down to life expectancy. Does your husband have any health issues that shorten his life expectancy? Do you?

And yes, I know it probably takes a crystal ball to really get a "good" answer here to base a decision on, but that's really what you need to know to get a completely logical answer.

If it was me, I'd take a guess at your life expectancies, and run the numbers - if he got that extra $1K/month now and invested it in a conservative to moderate risk portfolio, how much would it be worth when he fictionally passes away? If you then kept it invested but burned it at the rate of $1K/month (*see inflation note below), would it last to your life expectancy?

Then pick a few different life expectancies, and see how that changes the results.

* Of course, there's the whole inflation mess to consider - I don't think you said if the pensions we are talking about adjust for inflation (the one small one I have doesn't). You need to figure that into your calculations to really see - $1K now is worth a lot more than $1K 10 years from now, if the pensions don't adjust for inflation.
 
What about his military retirement pay? Have you taken that into account? I believe the SBP pays 55% of the monthly retirement pay amount. Depending on his health I would price a Term Insurance plan to see which is better option for his state retirement. What about VGLI did he not keep the policy? I know that it gets very expensive every block of 5 years after 50.
 
#2. No question. My father in law retired and never discussed with my mother in law what he was doing with regard to his pension. She had never worked anywhere where she established a pension for herself so she was entirely dependent on him financially. Guess who dropped dead literally 43 days after he retired. he only collected 1 check. He was walking to the front door to go get the mail and had a massive heart attack and was gone. She was a widow at 68 and had no clue until she was going through his papers that she was getting nothing. Everyone was shocked. He wasn't a bad guy but he sure left her in an awful predicament.
 
What about his military retirement pay? Have you taken that into account? I believe the SBP pays 55% of the monthly retirement pay amount. Depending on his health I would price a Term Insurance plan to see which is better option for his state retirement. What about VGLI did he not keep the policy? I know that it gets very expensive every block of 5 years after 50.

SBP provides 55%, but it is based on what amount was selected upon retirement. Any amount from from $300 up to full retirement pay can be can be selected, and the premium varies based on that amount (it's 6.5% of the amount selected). The spouse will receive 55% of whatever amount was selected.
 
Yep, Take number 2. My mom lasted on the lower draw left by my dad when he retired with a pension. The pension amount included having the over Medicare health insurance through the pension, and he died 2 months after retiring. That pension money, insurance, and social security payment let her live for 30 more years comfortably.
 
A few more details.
I'm 51. My husband is 61.
He's healthy, only takes meds for cholesterol. He's not overweight and sees his doctor regularly.
My grandmothers both lived forever...
I actually make more than my husband. I'd say I make about the same per month as my husband's state pay plus his military retirement. (low six figures).
My social security, when paid out, is higher. My retirement (per TransAmerica) is sunny. I could pay off my house on my own with my investments but prefer to live a nice retirement. I'l still very interested in all of your advice.
 
A few more details.
I'm 51. My husband is 61.
He's healthy, only takes meds for cholesterol. He's not overweight and sees his doctor regularly.
My grandmothers both lived forever...
I actually make more than my husband. I'd say I make about the same per month as my husband's state pay plus his military retirement. (low six figures).
My social security, when paid out, is higher. My retirement (per TransAmerica) is sunny. I could pay off my house on my own with my investments but prefer to live a nice retirement. I'l still very interested in all of your advice.

I still don't think any of that matters. If you can live without the money now, it's better to plan for the future and go with option 2 that gives you the most later. Just because others lived forever doesn't mean you won't have the need for the money later. Just because he's healthy now doesn't mean he will be forever. It's not about the now, it's about the future. Plus if your grandmothers lived forever, what if you live to be 100 and are retired for almost 40 years, you need money to sustain that and whatever living that long after working means.
 
A few more details.
I'm 51. My husband is 61.
He's healthy, only takes meds for cholesterol. He's not overweight and sees his doctor regularly.
My grandmothers both lived forever...
I actually make more than my husband. I'd say I make about the same per month as my husband's state pay plus his military retirement. (low six figures).
My social security, when paid out, is higher. My retirement (per TransAmerica) is sunny. I could pay off my house on my own with my investments but prefer to live a nice retirement. I'l still very interested in all of your advice.
I would ask a financial advisor about paying off the house. Too many things can happen where having a mortgage...especially in retirement....can be a liability. That is my opinion based on how it was helpful it was for my mom when my dad died when I was 9, not to have a mortgage. And it is my opinion based on losing my job a few months after our oldest started college, not having a mortgage.
 
A few more details.
I'm 51. My husband is 61.
He's healthy, only takes meds for cholesterol. He's not overweight and sees his doctor regularly.
My grandmothers both lived forever...
I actually make more than my husband. I'd say I make about the same per month as my husband's state pay plus his military retirement. (low six figures).
My social security, when paid out, is higher. My retirement (per TransAmerica) is sunny. I could pay off my house on my own with my investments but prefer to live a nice retirement. I'l still very interested in all of your advice.

Insurance companies don't like cholesterol meds. My husband is on those and at age 39, a 30 year term insurance plan was almost $300/month.

For a 61 year old man, you're looking at $2000/month as an AVERAGE for premiums for a term insurance plan.
 
I noticed you mentioned taking social security in the future. Will your husbands SS be reduced because he will be getting a state pension? Just something else to consider.
 
Insurance companies don't like cholesterol meds. My husband is on those and at age 39, a 30 year term insurance plan was almost $300/month.

For a 61 year old man, you're looking at $2000/month as an AVERAGE for premiums for a term insurance plan.
Ouch. My wife and I pay $175 a month total for $250,000 each life insurance I am type 2 diabetic and have high blood pressure and I am 63. We've had the policy for 33 years. I WAS on cholesterol meds for a while but all the meds did was raise my bad cholesterol and lower my good cholesterol
 












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