I love #1 because it seems lighter and gives your waist nice definition. Also, the bust line is very flattering. And one thing I do have to say for Maggie dresses (she's making mine) is that the way they are shaped draws attention to the dress as a whole and you in it. With the poofier dresses, the attention is either at the top or the skirt but never both as a whole. Plus, Maggies work even if you gain or loose weight, you can easily lace it tighter of looser without ir looking bad, so that saves on last minute altering. Just a personal preference on that. Also, you look happier in the 2nd dress, but the shape isn't as flattering, perhaps try and find a princess dress that flows in the same way the Maggie does, I know they're out there. And be prepared for humidity, even in winter, but that's Florida for you. IN the end pick what you love. Which one appears in your dreams? That's the one you should buy. Good luck!