My dd(6) is in 1st grade and doesn't like to stand up for herself to the other kids because she is afraid that she will get in trouble from the teacher and sent to the princapals office.I have been trying to tell her that they are picking on her because she doesn't try to stop them-it's just little things like taking her crayons and markers out of her hand while using them and not giving them back or borrowing her pencil sharpener then keeping it.Recently at a party the one girl sat in my dd seat and told her it was her seat now to go sit somewhere else.My dd ran to me and tried to pull me over to get the girl out of her seat but I feel like that wouldn't help she needs to stand up for herself.How do you help your kids be strong for themself?I always raised her to be nice to others and treat them as you want them to treat you but that seems to be hurting her now.I don't want her to be mean but just to be able to protect herself and not for the other kids to think they can bully her.I know it will just get worse every year.