For my family (DH, me, DS8, and DD3 last year) we spent $100/day for DDP, but our receipts averaged $150-$190/day. We did eat at a lot of nice restaurants that we would have skipped without the DDP. Do check
AAA for your trip - we saved $250+ going through them. The
travel agent is free, and they will make all arrangements for you, so you don't have to deal with Disney directly. There are also perks offered by AAA that you might like.
My thoughts for planning:
1) Go to
www.disneyworld.com and look over the park schedules and extra magic hours for the time you will be staying. Decide which parks you will be in on which day. My kids did the evening EMH at the parks each night, and were able to ride more than they did all day long. We let them sleep late in the AM, went to the pool, had lunch, then went into the parks and stayed through close.
2) Decide if you are going to eat any sit-down restaurants - whether you do DDP or not, you will need ADR for any TS meals. Standby time can sometimes be 2+ hours without ADR.
3) If you are going to do any shows or character meals, get those scheduled. My kids both loved the Hoop Dee Doo Revue. The food was all you can eat, free beer and sangria, and the show was so much fun.
4) Choose your hotel. allearsnet.com has awesome photos and reader reviews. We stayed at Coronado Springs last year, and it was wonderful. My DS8 loved the water slide - the biggest out of all the mod resorts. CSR is a convention hotel, so they tend to keep it nicer. It is also the only mod with central A/C, as opposed to a window unit. People seem to really like POFQ as well. I hear a lot of hit and miss about POR and CBR.
5) Use the itenerary section on disneyworld.com. It is great to be able to plan your days as you think of it, make changes, etc. Then just print it out before you go, and you have all confirmation numbers, ADR numbers, etc with you.
Sorry so lengthy. Please feel free to email me if I can help or answer any questions.