HI Michelle,
It has been weird not hearing from you for a while, so nice you've come back to the fold Yes there is a DIS meet on October 22nd at Raglan Road and we would love to see you there, I will PM you in a couple of weeks for ADR booking if you're interested.
I am so sorry you have been caught in the middle on this one, my family got split when I was a lot younger and the two sides still won't talk to this day, like being the meat in the sandwich I always think. Remember to breathe, remember that at the end of the day they both love you and you love them and that time will help a lot. In the meantime, get happy planning your escape We're all here to help,