FWIW, Conde Nast Traveler magazine readers list the following top Pacific Rim hotels in 2002 (I got this from the internet...the 2003 list is out but I misplaced the magazine)
1. Four Seasons Hualalai, Big Island 91.9
2. Four Seasons Wailea, Maui 91.6
3. Fairmont Kea Lani, Maui 90.5
4. Mauna Lani Bay Hotel & Bungalows, Big Island 90.3
5. Hayman, Queensland, Australia 88.8
5. Hyatt Regency, Kauai 88.8
7. Halekulani, Oahu 87.4
8. Hotel Bora Bora, French Polynesia 87.1
9. Lodge at Koele, Lanai 86.8
10. Manele Bay Hotel, Lanai 85.3
11. Kahala Mandarin Oriental, Oahu 84.6
12. Mauna Kea Beach Hotel, Big Island 83.7
13. Lizard Island Lodge, Queensland, Australia 83.6
13. Princeville Resort, Kauai 83.6
15. Bora Bora Lagoon Resort, French Polynesia 83.2
16. Orchid at Mauna Lani, Big Island 82.7
17. Hyatt Regency, Maui 82.3
18. Renaissance Wailea Beach Resort, Maui 82.0
19. Ritz-Carlton Kapalua, Maui 81.2
20. Grand Wailea Resort, Maui 81.0
21.
Kapalua Bay Hotel, Maui 80.0
22. Hapuna Beach Prince Hotel, Big Island 79.0
23. Sheraton Mirage, Port Douglas, Australia 79.0
24. Maui Prince at Makena 78.1
25. Kona Village Resort, Big Island 77.7
We stayed at the Four Seasons 5 years ago and just got back from 10 days at the Kea Lani (celebrating 20th Anniversary). Both were absolutely FABULOUS. (We didn't have the kids at the Four Seasons, but did bring them to the Kea Lani) If you can swing it, I would pay to stay there over using points for the concierge collection. But, hey, that's just me. The Kea Lani is an all suite hotel, with plenty for the kids to do. It's down in Wailea, which is the opposite end of Kapalua. But I prefer Wailea. We walked over to the Grand Wailea. That place is the Maui version of
Disneyland. If you like millions of kids running around 3 HUGE pools, then,well, you'll feel right at home.
Anyway...take it for what it's worth/ Not sure it helps.