The way that I have done this (but remember that I own my condo) is the DVC member transfers points into my DVC account in exchange for the stay. I have also read that people go to the TUG boards to exchange with other timeshare members.
I am still a bit confused. With the two boys which I want them to have a good time which one of the disney vacations spots do you recommend. I can get them through the long trip from NY to Hawaii. I am concerned which vacation place which I will use my points for two weeks should we stay at?