Oh I hate to be a downer but we have lived in NC our whole life and are about 2 hours from there. We have been to Holden, Ocean Isle and Sunset. They are about 10 minutes from each other, Holden being the most northern. Of these three beaches Holden would be my last pick based on proximity to other things. Sunset is very family oriented/ non commercial BUT if you want, Myrtle beach is only 15 minutes away. Ocean Isle has a little more activity. I might get flamed but Holden has less charm than the other two. Anyway, sorry if I seemed to be negative. Bottom line, NC beaches are amazing. If you want more info please email me; I would be happy to be more specific. Enjoy your vaction wherever you go!