We haven't yet been to DA but realized yesterday that we will be, in January! Woo! So we were just talking about this, while watching HP1.
The only suggestion I have is that if you truly have HP superfans you might want to do Diagon Alley first, including everything you see there, then take the train to the other section. The only reason for saying this is because technically all the books went from Diagon Alley to Hogsmeade in that order. Also the train station from Diagon Alley to Hogsmeade has an interesting effect that doesn't exist in the other direction.
My son disagrees. It works if you're Potter-focused, where that truly was his journey. Or Hermione or others who are surprised that they are wizards.
But if you're from a wizarding family, like the Weasleys, it's all old hat, and as DS said, there have probably been family visitation weekends that Ron (my son is tall and copper-haired, so in OUR household, the stories are about Ron and his total and utter bravery of not *having* to do scary things, but doing them anyway) has been to. So his journey isn't a big deal; he's the last boy in the family to go, there's another kid waiting in the wings at home for her own first year...it's just old hat. No big deal.
AND there have to be other ways to get to Hogsmeade other than the HE, because there are people living there. It's seems to be a train for Hogwarts; but how do all the people get there? There are other ways, and a wizarding family would likely have been there already.
So DS's plan is to go from Hogsmeade to DA.
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YES we talk a LOT about the books and story and what Rowling didn't write or didn't think to write. Such as, the stories of the poor kids whose parents sent them to Hogwarts in what should have been Ron etc's last year. What did they go through? How awful was it? How brave were they? There's some good fanfiction out there about it that I'm slowly reading, but how neat would it be for Rowling to get into it?
The other story we want to hear is the bad-guy adults. I think it's the last movie, when you're in the Malfoy home and they look so drawn and scared and exhausted...what have they been going through? What horrors have they seen?
And what was left on the cutting room floor from the movie, with all those amazing British actors sitting together, getting to the point where they look so close to death? I want to see that.