Thanks everyone! How do we find out about earlybirds? Are there pamphlets on the island?
Do we need to make ressies before we get there for dolphin cruises?
Any tips for the fireworks on Tuesdays?
If you are staying in Sea Pines, stop at any of the shopping centers on the way in and most every store has a copy of either "The Island Planner" which is booklet size and another dining magazine which is regular size. Both have discount coupons for dolphin cruises, and the larger one has menus for most of the restaurants on the island, including their early bird specials. You shouldn't need advance reservations for the dolphin cruise, but do so after you get settled in wherever you are staying. There are so many of them that you will have your pick, especially if staying in Sea Pines.
May I recommend Hudson's On the Docks for your seafood dining? Again, it may be a wait, but it is well worth it. The only drawback I can see for you is that it is at the top of the island and Sea Pines is down at the toe.
People start reserving spots for the Tuesday fireworks early in the afternoon. Since you have little ones, I recommend getting to Shelter Cove marina sometime late afternoon, early evening and put your name in at one of the restaurants, we love San Miguel's, but skipped it last year. There are street vendors and arts & crafts for the kids (sand bottles and hair braiding, etc.) Shannon Tanner gives two concerts on Tuesdays that your kids should enjoy.
Also, word to the wise, you will not be able to go into the
DVC resort for the Tuesday fireworks as you are not staying there for your trip. They station cast members at the entrance to prevent people from coming into it beginning around 4pm on Tuesday afternoons. Don't lie and say you are staying there because they will have the reservation roster with them. Somebody mentioned the Low Country Boil, but again that is only for guests of the resort.
Finally, RELAX! Hilton Head is NOT Walt Disney World. Slow down and enjoy yourself and don't be so anxious. Yes, it's exciting to go there, but the pace is SOOOOOOOO unlike what you must be used to from WDW.
Hope this helps,
Dan
(p.s. I've been visiting the Island every other summer since 1979, so if you have more questions, feel free to PM me)