Girls, Do You Do This? (Guys too, I suppose)

[DramaGirl]

I feel like such a terrible person. If I find out a guy likes me, I'll flirt with him. No matter what. It's like this subconscious thing that I do no matter if I am attracted to him or not. I don't want to lead them on, but I do it anyway.
Does anyone else do this too? Or am I just mean?

 

[GoofysOnlyGirl]

nope I do it. I think the fact that I know they are interested in me turns me on just a little bit, like a confidence boost know what I mean? Even if I am not physically attracted to them beforehand, or after, just the fact that they are interested in me makes me like them more.

I don't really flirt much anymore though, I am happy with the boy I have and don't want to lose him at all. Nobody compares

 

[minniesBFF]

I think it's almost involuntary for me. I do it no matter what they look like, who they are, if I actually like them in return or not, it doesn't matter. I'm gonna flirt. haha

It doesn't make you a bad person. I think we've all done it at least once in our lives.

 

[Sparx]

i don't do it, unless i like them too.

 

[WDWtraveler27]

Yes, I've done that also.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

I think everyone does it to some extent, ya know. Just the thought that someone interested in you.

I have a boyfriend and I'm guilty of flirting.

I've always been a HUGE flirt, so sometimes I come off as flirting when I'm really not. I'll be talking to a guy, and my friends will always be like "Kelsi, c'mon you have a boyfriend, stop flirting!"

I don't mean too.

There's this guy that I liked when I was a freshman. He was a senior. We talked a lot and got to be real good friends, then we got into a huge fight.

The other day he IM'd me on FB. And gave me his number so we could "catch up".

My friends were like "uh, jailbait?". Because he's a freshman in college, (he took some time off to work a little).

OT, but it's not jailbait, unless you do "something" with him right. Like just texting isn't bad, is it?

 

[GoofysOnlyGirl]

I think everyone does it to some extent, ya know. Just the thought that someone interested in you.

I have a boyfriend and I'm guilty of flirting.

I've always been a HUGE flirt, so sometimes I come off as flirting when I'm really not. I'll be talking to a guy, and my friends will always be like "Kelsi, c'mon you have a boyfriend, stop flirting!"

I don't mean too.

There's this guy that I liked when I was a freshman. He was a senior. We talked a lot and got to be real good friends, then we got into a huge fight.

The other day he IM'd me on FB. And gave me his number so we could "catch up".

My friends were like "uh, jailbait?". Because he's a freshman in college, (he took some time off to work a little).

OT, but it's not jailbait, unless you do "something" with him right. Like just texting isn't bad, is it?

^^yes just talking is not illegal. Even going out on a "date" is not illegal, like dinner/movies ect, just doing things is. And in Florida if they are under 25 and you are over 16 it is also legal to do things as well, but I believe you also need your parents consent for that. Not too sure.

 

[3mtn-kate]

I do it too, and I love my boyfriend so much and I still feel kind of guilty. If i'm with even my guy friends I flirt a little, I hug everybody it's just who I am. I've always been a flirt. I don't think there's any harm in it, I would never cheat on my boyfriend so I don't see the problem.

 

[PigletGurl]

Ehh, my fiance would kill me if I texted any guys or had any friends as guys lol

much less flirt with them.

 

[DramaQueen]

hmm...well a large chunk of my friends are guys, my bff is a guy, i hang out with guys without my bf often. he doesn't get jealous and i don't get jealous if he hangs out with girls, we trust each other 100% and honestly, i could care less if he flirts with girls when i'm not there, i know he loves me and he's mine, so what do i care if he has flirty conversations with other girls.

i think i'm kinda flirty by nature, but i don't mean anything by it so it's not an issue for me & my bf. i wouldn't feel too bad about it. if it's harmless, who cares. if you & your bf really like & trust each other there should be nothing to worry about imo. for a lot of it just comes by them naturally to be charming/flirty if it's just how you are, its NBD to me.

I do it too, and I love my boyfriend so much and I still feel kind of guilty. If i'm with even my guy friends I flirt a little, I hug everybody it's just who I am. I've always been a flirt. I don't think there's any harm in it, I would never cheat on my boyfriend so I don't see the problem.

^^those are my exact thoughts.
if you know you're not going to cheat and you're in a loving & trusting relationship there should be no reason for your bf/gf to get all hung up on you having friends of the opposite sex and joking with them/having cutesy conversations.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

I also consider myself a natural flirt. So, I really don't care if my guy flirts with another girl. to briefly state what caitlin said, we still have each other, and that's all that really matters.

 

[NateLovesNikons]

i do :/ gets me in trouble. i just cant help it. im kind of just act flirty towards all girls in general though haha. :/ only when i am single though. im a bad person.

 

[telescope]

when i find out that someone likes me i usually get weirded out and am sort of mean to them. i don't mean to be but it makes me feel awkward. unless i like them back of course. then i'm fine :B

 

[CastawayJ]

your naturaly attracted to anyone who is into you... it's part of your genetic coding (for the most part, this doesn't work 100% of the time)

 

[cindys_castle2011]

^^yes just talking is not illegal. Even going out on a "date" is not illegal, like dinner/movies ect, just doing things is. And in Florida if they are under 25 and you are over 16 it is also legal to do things as well, but I believe you also need your parents consent for that. Not too sure.

My parent's wouldn't really care. They don't care who I text. But going out? They wouldn't like me going out with a 19 year old.

I do it too, and I love my boyfriend so much and I still feel kind of guilty. If i'm with even my guy friends I flirt a little, I hug everybody it's just who I am. I've always been a flirt. I don't think there's any harm in it, I would never cheat on my boyfriend so I don't see the problem.

Exactly.

Ehh, my fiance would kill me if I texted any guys or had any friends as guys lol

much less flirt with them.

If Garrett got mad at me just texting guys, or being friends with them, I would not be with him. I love that boy to death. But the guys I talk to are guys that I'm very good friends with and have known for forever.

I don't tell him what he can do, or who he can and can't talk too, so I don't expect him too.

hmm...well a large chunk of my friends are guys, my bff is a guy, i hang out with guys without my bf often. he doesn't get jealous and i don't get jealous if he hangs out with girls, we trust each other 100% and honestly, i could care less if he flirts with girls when i'm not there, i know he loves me and he's mine, so what do i care if he has flirty conversations with other girls.

i think i'm kinda flirty by nature, but i don't mean anything by it so it's not an issue for me & my bf. i wouldn't feel too bad about it. if it's harmless, who cares. if you & your bf really like & trust each other there should be nothing to worry about imo. for a lot of it just comes by them naturally to be charming/flirty if it's just how you are, its NBD to me.

I agree 100% with everything you just said.

 

[Sparx]

I think everyone does it to some extent, ya know. Just the thought that someone interested in you.

I have a boyfriend and I'm guilty of flirting.

I've always been a HUGE flirt, so sometimes I come off as flirting when I'm really not. I'll be talking to a guy, and my friends will always be like "Kelsi, c'mon you have a boyfriend, stop flirting!"

I don't mean too.

There's this guy that I liked when I was a freshman. He was a senior. We talked a lot and got to be real good friends, then we got into a huge fight.

The other day he IM'd me on FB. And gave me his number so we could "catch up".

My friends were like "uh, jailbait?". Because he's a freshman in college, (he took some time off to work a little).

OT, but it's not jailbait, unless you do "something" with him right. Like just texting isn't bad, is it?

i don't know what your states laws are, but in tn, if the youngest party is over 16, but under 18, they can be with anyone not six years older than them. (so a 16 year old can be with a 21 year old, but not a 22 year old, does that make sense?)

and its only illegal if you have sex, over that gap age, and are reported.