Girls and Boys!

[Ms.Squeakers]

I'm kind of really frustrated right now.
There are days where C will jump to do things for me, is really nice and wants to spend time with me. Which I really love.
But then there's day like today, where he doesn't even feel the need to speak to me... and it makes me feel detached.
And it gets me thinking that I need to stop thinking about him that way, that it's unhealthy to be that emotionally attached to someone, especially when there's no hope they like you back...

Thats further then most people I know get to their crush.
I have hope, that he likes you.

My crush, we are really good friends, but he never TALKS to me. I mean, not in school. Out of school, its like "blah blah blah blah blah, blah blah blah oh really!? blah blah blah blah blah!" but..in school..i can honestly hear the crickets.

Its upsetting, he used to say "Hi" to me in the hallways, and wink at me ...n stuff...but now..he just clings to his "guy-pals" and only says goodbye to me and winks when no one is looking...

He used to come up behind me, pinch at my waist (which i love it when he does that), then says "Heeeyyyy " but now..its just "*softest voice* Bye Mouse"


Ugh!
I know he doesn't like me, and I keep telling myself "Mouse, don't like him back, its no use"
Like I tell myself "He doesn't like you, you don't like him" time after time, but then..i feel myself turn cold, and my stomach aches when we talk.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Thats further then most people I know get to their crush.
I have hope, that he likes you.

My crush, we are really good friends, but he never TALKS to me. I mean, not in school. Out of school, its like "blah blah blah blah blah, blah blah blah oh really!? blah blah blah blah blah!" but..in school..i can honestly hear the crickets.

Its upsetting, he used to say "Hi" to me in the hallways, and wink at me ...n stuff...but now..he just clings to his "guy-pals" and only says goodbye to me and winks when no one is looking...

He used to come up behind me, pinch at my waist (which i love it when he does that), then says "Heeeyyyy " but now..its just "*softest voice* Bye Mouse"


Ugh!
I know he doesn't like me, and I keep telling myself "Mouse, don't like him back, its no use"
Like I tell myself "He doesn't like you, you don't like him" time after time, but then..i feel myself turn cold, and my stomach aches when we talk.

Guys are so confusing.
I don't know why he stops talking to me. It was never a guy friends thing, because he rarely actually hangs out with guys (other than on break).
And I'm kinda pissed that he's not sitting near me in French anymore, meaning I hardly really get to talk to him unless we need to have groups.
Which kinda bugs me a lot, because I've been slowly making progress with him since December, and now it's all come to a roaring halt.
And I hate losing touch with people. And I hate the feeling that I'm really emotionally attached to them, and they account for an unhealthy amount of my happiness... and then things like this happen and I feel really awful for a long time.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

hehehe. i dont like the guy that was previously stated as liked. t least, i dont like him that much anymore its too bad too, cause hes hot, i just heard things that are a major turnoff

now i like his even hotter and much more suitable best friend.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Guys are so confusing.
I don't know why he stops talking to me. It was never a guy friends thing, because he rarely actually hangs out with guys (other than on break).
And I'm kinda pissed that he's not sitting near me in French anymore, meaning I hardly really get to talk to him unless we need to have groups.
Which kinda bugs me a lot, because I've been slowly making progress with him since December, and now it's all come to a roaring halt.
And I hate losing touch with people. And I hate the feeling that I'm really emotionally attached to them, and they account for an unhealthy amount of my happiness... and then things like this happen and I feel really awful for a long time.

Arg, I hate that feeling!
That really stinks.
Why dont you sit..near him?
Like he moved or whatever, but why dont ya just...follo- okay,
I honestly DONT want to sound like a stalker, but i mean.. i kinda do that with my crush but... not..in a stalker like way (inside joke involved there..) but yes.


I mean if ya like him, go for it, dont be clingy, but...


Crap,
Im bad.
Who am I to give advice?
No ones ever liked me before, except jerkfaces.

Dont listen to me and my stupid brain!

 

[peterpangirl_22]

ok well i'm looking for advice. my friends aren't really giving me real advice anymore so i've decided to ask all of you. ok january 2007 i broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months and while i was with him i got to know his friends. i started to get to know his friend peter and by june i was starting to have a crush on him. when we came back in september i saw him agian and all the feelings came right back. we started getting to know each other really well and it was clear to everyone around us that something was there. so i waited to see what would happen and in november i told him i liked him. i was nervous and excited to get his response, that was until i actually read it. he sent me this on facebook:

Well, I really don't know how to say this.
At first I was quite shocked to get that note from you because, well, I never get notes.
Yeah, I'm pretty loserly (even a word???).
But I don't have a clue how to respond. I especially don't want to hurt or insult you in any way. But, even though this sounds corny in my head, I like things the way they are, I mean, we're pretty good friends, you are one of my best friends, and I've seen TV shows and I have a sixth sence like no other that tells me things would be wierd any differently, and anything more I feel I wouldn't be that comfortable with with anybody right now. That's just not how I am. I respect you incredibly for the courage to express that though, I know I could/would not be able to. But hey! That doesn't mean I don't like you. And the thing that I like about you most, is that you are so easy to talk to because you have the same personality that I'd like to think I have. If this was anyone else, I'd probably freak out and avoid. But Amy you are just awesome in every way.
I just have one more thing to add before I send this message, just to prevent whatever wierdness may come of this.
Friends?

that really hurt but i eventually got over it and things went back to the way they were before. and then just a week ago we got back from a school exchange trip to europe. we always talked and hung out on the trip and then when we got to our host family town he looked me in the eyes said to me he really would like for us to hang out sometimes( it was intense). so we hung out alot but nothing happened. and now that we are home things are like before but i'm starting to notice him paying a little more attention to me which is pretty good considering he's friends with everyone. and that's where i'm at right now.
i don't know why i care so much about if he likes me or not, maybe it's because i think i like him more than any guy i've ever liked before. when he's gone i feel lonely and when we're together nothing can make me feel anything but happy.

what do you think?


Amy

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

ok well i'm looking for advice. my friends aren't really giving me real advice anymore so i've decided to ask all of you. ok january 2007 i broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months and while i was with him i got to know his friends. i started to get to know his friend peter and by june i was starting to have a crush on him. when we came back in september i saw him agian and all the feelings came right back. we started getting to know each other really well and it was clear to everyone around us that something was there. so i waited to see what would happen and in november i told him i liked him. i was nervous and excited to get his response, that was until i actually read it. he sent me this on facebook:

Well, I really don't know how to say this.
At first I was quite shocked to get that note from you because, well, I never get notes.
Yeah, I'm pretty loserly (even a word???).
But I don't have a clue how to respond. I especially don't want to hurt or insult you in any way. But, even though this sounds corny in my head, I like things the way they are, I mean, we're pretty good friends, you are one of my best friends, and I've seen TV shows and I have a sixth sence like no other that tells me things would be wierd any differently, and anything more I feel I wouldn't be that comfortable with with anybody right now. That's just not how I am. I respect you incredibly for the courage to express that though, I know I could/would not be able to. But hey! That doesn't mean I don't like you. And the thing that I like about you most, is that you are so easy to talk to because you have the same personality that I'd like to think I have. If this was anyone else, I'd probably freak out and avoid. But Amy you are just awesome in every way.
I just have one more thing to add before I send this message, just to prevent whatever wierdness may come of this.
Friends?

that really hurt but i eventually got over it and things went back to the way they were before. and then just a week ago we got back from a school exchange trip to europe. we always talked and hung out on the trip and then when we got to our host family town he looked me in the eyes said to me he really would like for us to hang out sometimes( it was intense). so we hung out alot but nothing happened. and now that we are home things are like before but i'm starting to notice him paying a little more attention to me which is pretty good considering he's friends with everyone. and that's where i'm at right now.
i don't know why i care so much about if he likes me or not, maybe it's because i think i like him more than any guy i've ever liked before. when he's gone i feel lonely and when we're together nothing can make me feel anything but happy.

what do you think?


Amy

I think, he might just wanna be friends.
He might like you a teensy weensy bit, but I dont know THAT much about the guy, so... yeah.

 

[Stitch&figment 4 eve]

I have some questions here :

Do guys ever uhm...make their voices deeper then it really is to impress a girl they like?

Do guys ever NOT slap their butts to greet each other?

Am I insane for just seriously asking that!? xD

When you like a girl, and you aren't sure if she likes you back what do you do?

Why do guys always go for the uhm..skank girls?

Is it possible for a cute guy to like an "ugly" girl?

Do guys ever base things on personality and times shared, instead of how great their butt looks in a mini skirt?

1. I can honestly say I've never done that. Maybe kids who's voices haven't gotten deeper, but I doubt it.

2. Yes. But not very often. JK, yeah it's a football thing. I'll walk around and get slapped in my butt, depending on the person. Wait for the Fall, when football season comes around, it gets a lot worse.

3. I usually just keep talking to them, and then ask.

4. The mind of a teenager. Usually the shallow guys go for "skanks".

5. No girl is ugly. It's personality that sets one ahead from another.

6. Personality is everything. It's really pointless to try and even talk to someone without personality.

7. Having fun with someone is essential. If someone has a fun personality then being with them makes everything great.

 

[C.J. Sparrow]

Do guys ever uhm...make their voices deeper then it really is to impress a girl they like? I haven't.

Do guys ever NOT slap their butts to greet each other? ...I never have. If anyone did that to me, they'd receive a fist to their nose.

Am I insane for just seriously asking that!? xD Yes.

When you like a girl, and you aren't sure if she likes you back what do you do? Lose sleep over it, ask her friends, keep talking to her.

Why do guys always go for the uhm..skank girls? They usually look like Jessica Alba or something on the outside, but what they don't know is that they're ugly on the inside.

Is it possible for a cute guy to like an "ugly" girl? Yes. Depends on what they think is ugly.

Do guys ever base things on personality and times shared, instead of how great their butt looks in a mini skirt? I focus more on the former. I couldn't care less about butts.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Arg, I hate that feeling!
That really stinks.
Why dont you sit..near him?
Like he moved or whatever, but why dont ya just...follo- okay,
I honestly DONT want to sound like a stalker, but i mean.. i kinda do that with my crush but... not..in a stalker like way (inside joke involved there..) but yes.


I mean if ya like him, go for it, dont be clingy, but...


Crap,
Im bad.
Who am I to give advice?
No ones ever liked me before, except jerkfaces.

Dont listen to me and my stupid brain!

The thing is, is I'm not sure if he's started noticing that I kind of leave class quickly so that I don't miss him walking out the door (he's really tall, he can walk down a hallway faster than I am) and then will slow down, hoping he'll end up walking beside me.
I don't know if it's obvious or not.
French class is one of those classes with a seating plan. If I sat next to him, my teacher would be mad, he'd be confused and the girl who sits next to him would probably tell me to get lost (well not in those words, she's a rather kind person).
Every other class, there aren't seating plans, but you don't change seats because we've been sitting there forever. Especially in Music, because of having to get the piano's out and the plugs (the plugs hang from the ceiling). I sit in a different spot, and it screws the person who sits there over.

He wasn't at school today. He left yesterday at lunch, I don't know if he's sick, had some form of religious thing to do/attend or if he was going on vacation somewhere. I'd kind of like to know. And I hate the weekend because I feel so detached from everything, from my friends, from him and basically everyone I know.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Ahh gotcha,
So kinda like its assigned seating based on your class, but its NOT assigned seating?

 

[Babyjustrun]

Pretty much.
Homeroom, I've been sitting in the same seat since October, and so has everyone else. If I were to change seats it would confuse everyone.
Second, it's not an assigned seat really, it's just where I sit, there isn't really any open seats anywhere.
Third, well it's the same class as homeroom, but I decided to sit across the class because the person who sits there is in art instead of music.
Fourth.. I've been sitting there for months.

And fifth is my assigned seating seat xD

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Yeah thats how my classes are, we dont have assigned classes, but since day one, we all chose seats, and if we were to change people would be terribly confused on where to sit, and it wouldnt make sense.

 

[#1TiggerFan]

idk if i should go to my crushes baseball game or not?? help!!

 

[DramaQueen]

idk if i should go to my crushes baseball game or not?? help!!

yes! go
boys love it when you go to their games!!!
they want to impress you!!

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

yes! go
boys love it when you go to their games!!!
they want to impress you!!

Interesting!
I didnt know that...

 

[Sparx]

I spent most of last night at one of zach's games.

he makes me happy.

today was terrible. like, terrible. i was on the verge of tears about something pretty bad (and I don't cry. if i'm crying, its bad) and he was great. he kept me calm, and made me laugh. this kid is amazing.

 

[#1TiggerFan]

yes! go
boys love it when you go to their games!!!
they want to impress you!!

well idk if he like me but i like him and i just to go see him play b/c they say he's good at pitching the ball!
i need major boy advice!!!

 

[jbcheerchick93]

idk if i should go to my crushes baseball game or not?? help!!

go go go go go!!!!!

hehe. little story.....
the day that MY crush made the baseball team he calls me to tell me and then makes me PROMISE to go to all of his games. but i would have anyways.

but yeah they love it when you do that. first they want to show off, then they look hotttttt in those baseball pants, and finally, the next day you will have something to talk about.

wll another thing is...do you know him?? like are you friends or do you just like him. and then i am the craziest person in the world. ill go up to a guy on the team and they look at me like, why were you at practice??? they havent had a home game yet so i say i just wanted to see the ah-mazing team that won 9-0 yesterday.

 

[#1TiggerFan]

i wish i could just talk to him but just us two then we'd be friends. i just to shy and i wish someone out there would like me but who knows. how could i impress a guy and when a guy impresses me??? i need advice

 

[Sparx]

go go go go go!!!!!

hehe. little story.....
the day that MY crush made the baseball team he calls me to tell me and then makes me PROMISE to go to all of his games. but i would have anyways.

but yeah they love it when you do that. first they want to show off, then they look hotttttt in those baseball pants, and finally, the next day you will have something to talk about.

wll another thing is...do you know him?? like are you friends or do you just like him. and then i am the craziest person in the world. ill go up to a guy on the team and they look at me like, why were you at practice??? they havent had a home game yet so i say i just wanted to see the ah-mazing team that won 9-0 yesterday.

Zach's a keeper on the soccer team. I love his uniform. its basically under armor pants and a green and black jersey.