I think the last time the resort was entirely refurbished was back in the summer of 2000. I'm sure that they do replace and maintain, but other than a recent main lobby rennovation, I don't think there's been too much done. The decor is very feminine, but that's the victorian theme. My 14 year old son didn't complain about the bedding or the design, but honestly I wouldn't really expect him to notice anything like that. He's pretty much happy with a hot shower and a comfortable bed.
We've stayed many times at the GF, but this time we are going to try out an Epcot resort. My kids are getting older now and we thought it would be fun to have the convenience of Epcot and MGM this time around. We picked the Yacht Club, which is a nautical theme and a bit more masculine. Plus they have Storm Along Bay which I'm sure will be a big hit with my kids.
Tammi