Do you have google maps or the waze app? It will show you traffic. We love it! Waze powers...um...does the traffic for google maps so it's real time driving and people report accidents, etc...
I prefer the GW. The only time my dh took the tappen zee I was ready to kill him as it added time to our drive.
Ironically, last April when we were coming home, it was a Monday, the day after Easter. I told my dh to take the GW and of course he was not thrilled as he was worried about traffic but I was watching it as was he on the apps.
We hit the GW at 5pm going into NYC. Not a car, ok there were a handful but there was no line for the toll!
Then we hit greenwich and it took us 2 hours to get to my moms in Trumbull. We didn't get home (we live just north of old saybrook, ct) til close to 10 that night.