Westcoastwild
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I suggest you read through this thread.
https://www.disboards.com/threads/is-abd-worth-the-discussion-thread.3045636/
Thanks for the link. More variety of people than I would have expected. I didn't realize ABD has Vietnam/Cambodia tour. I'd be tempted by that.
We went on our Holiday Danube River Cruise with ABD because it was the only itinerary I could find (and I did a pretty thorough search) that had the Vienna Boys Choir on Christmas Day. My DH decided that was what he wanted so viola! there we were (while we could have done this on our own, wasn't going to-DH doesn't get enough time off for us to be our own tour directors. When I'm alone in Europe I can do it but together...no thanks).
This Christmas we'll be on the Rhine River Cruise with ABD because we'll have DD (17) and want her to have the option of spending time with other teens. If we weren't taking her, probably wouldn't do ABD, to be honest.
I've looked at other, land based ABDs but they never seem to work with our time parameters except once, and that one had many small children so I declined to participate.
Anyway, yes, there are a variety of reasons for doing an ABD tour.
Thanks for the warning! Yikes. Maybe not. Were you there doing monsoon season?
Very cool. Makes sense. Did a long trip to Europe over Christmas and I've got to admit that was the first time I've ever seen a big plus for tours- namely, someone else doing the planning. That kind of consumed my life for a really long time before the trip.
How was the Vienna boys choir?? I wanted to go to a choir performance, but they were always on the day before or after I arrived in place, lol.
Thanks for the warning! Yikes. Maybe not. Were you there doing monsoon season?
We did Cental Europe on our own during Christmas and it was incredible, but it does consume a lot of time. There are pros and cons of ABD compared to traveling on your own. Given the choice, I prefer ABD usual but it depends on the situation. Case in point in the next 18 mo I have S. Africa and China ABDs planned and Japan and possibly Portugal or Croatia on our own that we're working on. So I balance the two. But man, the OYO trips require a lot of planning. At this point, I prefer ABD.
How was the Vienna boys choir??
That's probably good advice that I was unaware of when I went during the summer. However, whether we got lucky or not, it didn't rain much during our trip. It rained once in Saigon when we went to the Chu Chi Tunnels. And it rained for 1 or 2 hours in the afternoon in Cambodia. Reminded me of Florida in the summer. My trip report is below. Amazing trip. Still one of the best.
You probably got lucky. We did when we were in Hue. Apparently it rains there pretty much year round and we hit it on a week when it wasn't raining so the few days we were there it was beautiful.
The other downside of the summer is it was very hot. I had to go when my son was out of school, but when I go again it will likely be over Christmas break. Beautiful countries though.
Beyond the convenience of everything being planned and coordinated for you along the way, the ABD tours have been nice for us because of the company along the way. I have two daughters, now 11 and 13, and they have really enjoyed traveling with other families. It has been a good mix of time with our family together and then time for them with the other kids and for us with other adults. It really has added to the travel experience for us. For example, in Scotland, there is a lot of necessary travel time between the locations, spent on a bus. If we had gone with just our family, our kids might have sat in the backseat of a car, and either argued or played on their phones the whole time. Instead, they sat in the back of the bus with other kids and had a great time. Same with the boat cruise portion of our Galapagos tour. During the free time on the boat, the kids all hung out together and had a great time.
I may have written about this on the other thread, but we took a self-planned trip to Hawaii last year and it really highlighted to us why we should stick to ABDs instead. We stayed at Aulani, but without any other kids they knew there, my girls quickly got on each others' nerves and spent much more time in the room on their ipads than I would have liked. Not to mention dealing with rentals cars that weren't ready or canceled hotel reservations, activities that we cancelled due to bad weather and not having an alternate plan, and spending a lot of time arguing about what everyone wanted to do each "free" day (all of which actually happened to us). The pace of the ABDs works really nicely for us, and we feel like we fit a lot in for the time spent.
Beyond the convenience of everything being planned and coordinated for you along the way, the ABD tours have been nice for us because of the company along the way. I have two daughters, now 11 and 13, and they have really enjoyed traveling with other families. It has been a good mix of time with our family together and then time for them with the other kids and for us with other adults. It really has added to the travel experience for us. For example, in Scotland, there is a lot of necessary travel time between the locations, spent on a bus. If we had gone with just our family, our kids might have sat in the backseat of a car, and either argued or played on their phones the whole time. Instead, they sat in the back of the bus with other kids and had a great time. Same with the boat cruise portion of our Galapagos tour. During the free time on the boat, the kids all hung out together and had a great time.
I may have written about this on the other thread, but we took a self-planned trip to Hawaii last year and it really highlighted to us why we should stick to ABDs instead. We stayed at Aulani, but without any other kids they knew there, my girls quickly got on each others' nerves and spent much more time in the room on their ipads than I would have liked. Not to mention dealing with rentals cars that weren't ready or canceled hotel reservations, activities that we cancelled due to bad weather and not having an alternate plan, and spending a lot of time arguing about what everyone wanted to do each "free" day (all of which actually happened to us). The pace of the ABDs works really nicely for us, and we feel like we fit a lot in for the time spent.