friend trouble

[Disney Princess 91]

OK.I'll get right down to the point. This girl Sarah and I have been friends for 5 years and ever since i've been fighting with her almost every other day and its always HER fault. So to put it short, shes a witch. The other day, we got in the mother of all fights, long story,she dosnt want to be hangaround friends anymore all because this other girl said something that she didnt like at school. How should i tell her i didnt do anything?

 

[Rose_Greenthumb]

Is she really the kind of person you want to be friends with if this is how she's going to treat you?

My best friend, also called Sarah, fell out with me for no reason a while back (I actually think it was because I nearly killed her dog but that was an accident!). She tried to push me down some stairs and we really horrible to me. I moved on and made friends with other people. Today I'm really happy and she's round the back of the bikesheds giving herself cancer.

If you're sure she deserves you, good luck in sorting everything out but sometimes these things work out for the best.

 

[Lola]

WOW i went through a whooooole big thing with all my friends last year.. and pretty much all I have to say is, if she doesn't trust you - she isn't your friend. Relationships need to be based on trust, and if she doesn't have it, she isn't worth it..

 

[AbErGrl217]

If I were u i wouldnt want to be friends with her. I would ignore her and start being friends with other people. Tell her that u really want to be her friend and that you didnt do anything and that if she doesnt want to be friends with you then she should tell u and u will move on.

 

[MickeyMouse418]

mmm before dropping her, i would sit down and have a long talk with her about how you feel. ive been through this three times with my closest friends. my best friend and i are so close that we fight like sisters, but we talk about stuff and get past our fights. the other 2 ones and i have kinda dropped out because they werent willing to talk and realize how they were hurting me because they were too caught up in themselves
talk to you friend and let her kno how you feel. if shes willing to change and feels bad, then its worth it to keep the friendship going. if she cant see that shes hurting you, then shes not worth keeping, its her loss.
good luck, i hope everything goes ok

 

[PixiePower62]

I dunno how much this will help, but my best friend and I were really close and had a lot in common since the last 2 years ive known her. This year, we have all of our classes together, which we didnt before, and since we would be around each other so much, we would get more aggravated, and we dealt with that in two totally different ways. I wanted to talk it out and make it better, and she tries to just ignore people when she was frustrated. I would talk to my other friend when she ignored me, which I thought would make it better but she actually got madder. So we got into like a fight a week, and eventually we would be ok with one another, once we screamed a little (ussually online so we wouldnt cause any kind of scene at school) and it actually worked. Finally we had a really big fight, and we takled it out and what frustrated us, and now we dont fight at all anymore. Kinda like sitcom talk it out cheesy like, but it actualy does work to tell what is wrong. I hope this helps.

 

[MickeyMouse418]

pixiepower ~ thats cool what happened to ur friend. my bff and i have been getting on each others nerves too now, more often than b4 cuz we also have a lot of classes together and we used to go to different schools. it sux cuz we have known each other since we were 2. its hard, but it reallys helps when we yell at each other and then talk it out too lol. when ur mad at ur friend, ignoring them is the worst thing to do...ive learned from bad experience...they just get mad at me. im glad u and ur friend worked things out tho.