Totally depends on if you can share one bathroom and the typical hotel room.... have you all traveled together before? Does anyone need to take 45 min showers, is someone a diva and need the entire bathroom mirror and vanity to themselves?? I only ask these questions as a mom of teenage girls with a sister, sister in law, niece, lol.
If you aren't keen on one bathroom, you could do two values/two mods and request connecting but it's not a guarantee. That way you have two bathrooms/two showers and more storage space. If you are preferring deluxe for more amenities, you could try renting DVC but that comes with an added layer of planning pretty far out and dealing with trip insurances, etc. It's not ideal for some. SSR would be top of mind if you want to be closer to DS. And of course, if budget isn't really an issue, you can book a DVC villa direct via disney and get something a little larger without a rental agency as the middle man but this is usually pretty pricy for anything larger than a studio.
We like Swan and Dolphin a lot, closer to mod pricing and has a nice pool, dining and amenities. Just another alternative to disney only property and very close to other resorts for dining/drink options.