Foster Care in California

dairyou

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Hello,

DH and I are thinking of taking a foster child since our 2 DS are teens now. Does anyone know how it works? Are we responsible for food, clothing ect? We want to make sure we have enough money to support one more child.

We've wanted to do it for a long time know but were scared when the boys were younger. Now they are self sufficient and we could love another child ;)

Deb
 
Hi!

We are going through the process of getting approved to adopt through foster care. I just had one of my interviews today. :) Every county is different, so definitely check out the link that bsnyder posted.
 
that's a great link that was provided.

minimum foster care rates are set by the state but they can vary county to county in california, and they can vary, depending on individual child needs/difficulties, from child to child.

generaly speaking that rate is supposed to cover all the basic needs of the child-food, housing, clothing, school supplies...but one thing you need to keep in mind with f/c is that even though it's paid out monthly-its computed on a daily rate, so if a kid is placed into your home on the 10th of a given month you will only receive a prorated amount for the days in that month the child was placed in your home. it's important to know this because kids can come into your home with only the clothes on their backs-so you have to either have a supply of clothing/toiletries on hand or go out and buy some. items you may find that cost you more than your entire first month's rate (which like the link sez-can take an initial 30-45 days to receive). likewise, if a child is placed in your home, you go to that expense, and then the placement is changed-you will only receive the rate for the days the child was there (so if it's 2 weeks-figure 14 days prorated monthly rate).

idealy the rates are supposed to cover your expenses-in reality it can be an additional expense to have a foster child. if covering your expenses is a concern-i'de say look to your existing expenses for your own kids and figure out what of those items you'de want to/need to provide a fc child-esp. if you are looking at what i'de call 'entertainment' and 'extras' (extracurriculars, doing family activities that cost per person, eating out...) then you could be looking at spending considerably more than fc provides (fc rates are intended to provide for "the minimum adequate standard of care").

another great resource of information is foster parent support groups-do a google search for sacramento county or check in the sacramento bee for a local group. these folks know the in's and out's of the local system-and can warn you of any pitfalls. some groups (like one that used to exist in contra costa) are highly organized such that members have 'sharing closets' set up-if you get a 10 year old whose size 12 you call your fc parent friend who keeps a supply of appropriate sized clothes/age appropriate toys on hand for you to borrow, if an fc friend gets a 10 month old they call you to borrow those 10 mo. clothes and baby supplies you've agreed to keep on hand and lend out (this is exactly why some fc parents are rigid in the ages of kids they will take-so they can maintin supply closets and not have repeated expenses). the groups can also tell you the good/bad about the differences in placements-emergency placements, initial placements, long-term-and the time committment for all of an average fc kid's needs.

time committment can be a big issue-some counties are realy great on providing dss staff to taxi the fc kids to all their appointments (counseling, visitations, court hearings, assessments...)-others put this on the fc parents (and it's not schedualed around your convenience).

get as much information and education as you can-some people love it, some people find it not at all what they anticipated and it becomes a very negative experience for them and their families.
 

Hi!

We are going through the process of getting approved to adopt through foster care. I just had one of my interviews today. :) Every county is different, so definitely check out the link that bsnyder posted.


congrats:cheer2: :cheer2:

btw-i ended up with allot of former orange county dss staff as my co-workers. back in the 90's when o.c. had to declare bankruptcy and thousands of their public employees lost their jobs other counties got flooded with applicants (the former o.c. staffers referred to it as 'the great migration':rotfl: ). nice folks!
 
Thanks guys :)

I'm so excited to have another child in our home. I've always wanted to have 3 but it just didn't happen. DH is a little hesitant still but I think he is just worried about the economy and supporting a third child.

Congrats Diva. You'll have to continue to let me know how it goes since we're just starting.

One more question...we have teens already with the attitude and everything that comes with it. We'd like a child under 8. Is that a possibility?

Deb
 
We adopted our 2 foster children this year. Yes, you do get a per-diem and there is an allowance (10 haircuts, 20$ b-day gifts etc).

From past experience, I will say if you want to raise them the right way....extra-curricular activities, family events etc, your per-diem WILL NOT cover it all.

We put out much more than we were reimbursed for however, we wanted the children to be a major part of our family and not feel differant.

You cannot believe the horror stories I have heard....people who won't rive their foster kids more than 6 miles, if over, a driver needs to be sent....send them to respite when they go on family vacations etc...not sure why they were approved foster parents.:confused3

So, be prepared to spend much of your own money. We would get $40.00 a month for clothing. There was not much you could by with that. ALso, my kids came from horrible situations and literally arrived with the close on their back (and they needed to be thrown away).

PM me with any questions.

Kim
 


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