4077, very well said.
On my townie FB someone was looking for dog friendly churches. I agree this has gone way too far. Not one of these types of owners ever seem to take into account that some people are fearful and others are allergic to their fur babies. These (nondog) folks also need to be respected. Leave the dog at home. The dogs don't want to go to the grocery store. The dogs don't want to go to the beach. The dogs don't want to go to church and they sure as heck don't need a Disney Vacation.
I agree that dogs/pets don't belong in grocery stores, churches and many other places. However, there are many dog friendly beaches and there are many dogs who love the beach. I wouldn't know about mine as I HATE the beach and will never take them there.
Many people got into camping/RVing to be able to take their pets with them. The vast majority of campgrounds in the US are pet friendly, including Fort Wilderness. I don't think pets need a Disney vacation, but the people who live with them sometimes do, and since Fort Wilderness is pet friendly, I will continue to bring my dogs. Boarding is cost prohibitive and there is no one I would trust to stay in my house and watch my pets. Besides, my pets enjoy being with my family and we enjoy being with them. I do not think dogs belong in the theme parks or Disney Springs and would never subject my dogs to that experience...it's not always fun for the people either.
The two statements above are in contradiction with each other. By taking your dogs to places where they shouldn't normally be, even if they are "allowed," means that you are indeed forcing your dogs on others and making them "come near them" even if they don't want to.
You exhibit the same problem that we've been talking about in this thread. It's not up to others to accommodate you and your pets, it's the other way around. You're the imposition and should keep your dogs away from others, not rely on them to avoid you.
Again, putting the onus on others to accommodate you, rather than the other way around. Why do you need others to signal to you that they don't want your dogs around them? Shouldn't you just be respectful and keep them away?
To give you some credit, you actually do sound like a mostly respectful, reasonable dog owner that I wouldn't normally have a problem with. Unfortunately, most of the frustrations we have are with people who aren't as responsible as you are. They flout the rules, are inconsiderate, and entitled. Those are the people we are frustrated at, not all pet owners, but unfortunately when we complain about them, other (responsible) pet owners also end up feeling a little attacked, though that is unintended.
As Corgidad and 4077 said, it is the owner's responsibility to keep their pets within certain boundaries and not allow them to go into other people's personal spaces. Unfortunately, not everyone agrees/understands this and will allow their dog to do whatever they want, which is a darn shame. I move my dogs off of the sidewalk and out of the way until people have passed by.
I find that most (not all) people want to ask me about my dogs and when we go to move out of the way, they stop and want to pet them and ask what they breed they are, how much they weigh, etc, etc. And I require all children to get their parents' permission before they approach my dogs.
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"taking your dogs to places where they shouldn't normally be, even if they are "allowed," means that you are indeed forcing your dogs on others and making them "come near them" even if they don't want to." If dogs are allowed, anyone going there should go with the expectation that they might encounter a dog. It's all about doing your research, I do mine to make sure I know where they are "allowed" and then decide if I would take them.
As everyone can see, there are dog fans and people who are not. And just as 4077 said, all of these things can be applied to inconsiderate campers, smokers, neighbors, the list could go on and on. I really wish people could respect each other and be considerate, but I guess that is just not a behavior natural to all people.
