ok, too tired now to read through the whole thread. first; a question:
we come from chicago. we have considered trying to miss atlanta altogether by staying on 65 and going through Alabama. then either cutting over to Ga. (around Tifton) or heading down to 10 in fla. but nebo (DH) is concerned about these state routes. is it really slow going? any suggestions?
second: our advice. we have driven many times. when we had kids with us, we stayed at a nice motel 6 in stockbridge,just south of ga. (get atlanta over with, get to the motel with pol time for the boys. NOW, we don't make ressies (even though we could get a discount with our Moose membership, but you have to make ressies). we live at 3 AM (yikes!

) to get around chgo.(we are NW of it) before rush hour. (sometimes we have taken 57 through IL). and we drive until nebo's back gives out or the sun goes down, whichever comes first. so we like to stop at the GA rest stop and pick up the MOTEL COUPON books. then as we get close to "destination time" call the motels to see which have available:
smoking rooms, 1st floor drive up, exterior corridors. that way we can just bring in what we need, as little as possible, and the car is RIGHT There if we need anything else. (HAVE to bring in the manhattan mixes. nebo drives, I unload and FIRST priority... make him his manhattan!

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you would think by now we would KNOW which motels have this in Macon, tifton, amboy, etc, all the little towns along 75.... but... we don't!
on the way home

we know we like a DAYs Inn in Shepardsville KY, just south of Louisville. we always seem to get there just about dark (we HATE looking for a hotel in the dark). they have all of the above(yes, they have non-smoking rooms, too) and 2 24 hour restaurants RIGHT there! one is a dennys, but the other is a cute little place where you can get burgers or country fried steak or whatever, so we check in, have a drinkie poo (or two), then walk over for a meal. back to the room to crash . leave about 6 am and home soon! (darn, maybe I shouldn't have given away our secret; next trip they won't have any available!)