Flying with Autistic Child

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I will be flying with my autistic 5 year old in January, I am very nervous because we have not had him on a plane since he was a baby. He is also non verbal and does not understand. I was hoping I could get some advice on getting through the 2 hour flight and maybe advice for the airport.

Thanks
 
We will be flying with my autistic 5yr old on Tuesday. We have flown with him a few times. He wasn't very verbal last year but lucky with the new school he is in he is starting to talk more. With him we have learned to make sure he is sitting by the window so he can look out or if he falls asleep it is more comfortable for him. We also bring his iPad loaded with some new games and movies he hasn't played or seen yet. Be sure to bring any busy items he enjoys.
 
Check the tsa website. There is a lot of information there about flying with people with special needs and also a number you can call that may be able to provide assistance at the airport.
 
Also depending on where you live some airlines have a program for people with Autism.. you can do a dry run on a plan.. they will take the kids through the TSA screening area and show them what they will do.. they will then allow them on the plane to visit and sit and get an idea of what the person will need to do..

http://www.friendshipcircle.org/blo...hearsal-programs-for-individuals-with-autism/

My son is 10 and he has flown to Australia.. when he was 3, and we fly from WA to LA every year for our Disney trip.. he is a great traveler and I have never had any problems with him..
when he was smaller we would take an inflatable ball for him to play with while waiting at the gate.. we would go early to avoid problems at security. and find an empty gate to play in.. as he got older he took a skipping rope. we had playdough in our bag., a book.. coloring books and crayons.. cars , he is obsessed with cars.. so he always had a few to play with.. I made a small map and laminated it for him to use on the meal tray.. we took our own snacks .. that was a must. :).
when booking your ticket if the website asks if you need special assistance. then say yes.. if it doesnt then call the airline and get it put on your ticket.. and when checking in make sure you say something... they will help you get through security..

getting on the plane can go two ways , getting on with the first group of passengers.. small kids and special assistance etc. but that means a longer time on the plane..
or getting on last.. if traveling with another adult , they get on with your bags etc and you walk around with your son.. and at the very last minute you get on , less time on the plane..

on the plane . noise canceling headphones , or earbuds with an MP3 player.. if he is allowed a tablet , I Would wait to bring that out.. try and get him engaged in something else first..

make a social story. The Watson Institute has a free down loadable social story area on their website.
and lastly Youtube .. we love Youtub , find videos on what to do on a plane..

Hope you have a great trip ..
 

Toys, Device (Ipad, Leappad, etc) and lots of snacks! I'm also kind of lucky b/c my DS gets a little scared as soon as the plane starts to move, so he ends up snuggling into me, and eventually falls asleep. For the airport, my suggestion is to not let him have anything in hands until you get past TSA. We've had problems in the past where DS doesn't want to give up what's in his hands to go through security. TSA has always been good about letting DS stay with me when we walk through the metal detector. I've never even had to ask, they just say something to the effect of "Mom, you can hold his hand and come on through."
 
Quick related question: Do I need to contact TSA to ask them if it's okay to use the disability line at the security checkpoint or go through my airline's special assistance or just turn up and ask them? I need a bit of extra time to go through the security process.
 
when he was smaller we would take an inflatable ball for him to play with while waiting at the gate.. we would go early to avoid problems at security. and find an empty gate to play in.. as he got older he took a skipping rope. we had playdough in our bag., a book.. coloring books and crayons.. cars , he is obsessed with cars.. so he always had a few to play with.. I made a small map and laminated it for him to use on the meal tray.. we took our own snacks .. that was a must. :).

I'm surprised that an inflatable ball, playdough and a rope got through security!
 
I'm surprised that an inflatable ball, playdough and a rope got through security!
we had no problems at all... nothing wrong with an inflatable ball.. playdough is not a liquid and they never said anything about the rope..
 
we had no problems at all... nothing wrong with an inflatable ball.. playdough is not a liquid and they never said anything about the rope..

I'm guessing the ball went through xray, did they test the air in it? Did they test a bit of the play dough? Very surprised about the rope - can I ask what airport you fly from?
 
I'm guessing the ball went through xray, did they test the air in it? Did they test a bit of the play dough? Very surprised about the rope - can I ask what airport you fly from?
The ball was deflated. we blew it up once we got through and at an empty gate.. and then let the air out when getting on the plane.. and yes everything went through the Xray machine.. We live in WA but took everything through both SeaTac and LAX. Melbourne airport.. also have travelled with these items through Portland and Santa Ana and Long Beach and never had any problems.. The only times I have been stopped for bag checks was for my back when they thought I had a swiss army credit card style knife and they spent 15 minutes looking for it and got very annoyed when they couldn't.. seeing as I didn't even know what it was I would have been very surprised if they have found what they thought they saw.. other than that I have never had any trouble taking anything through customs.. or TSA lines.. and this is all over the last 10 years
 
I will be flying with my autistic 5 year old in January, I am very nervous because we have not had him on a plane since he was a baby. He is also non verbal and does not understand. I was hoping I could get some advice on getting through the 2 hour flight and maybe advice for the airport.

Thanks

First of all, even though your son is "non verbal" don't assume he "doesn't understand." Both of my sons are autistic and if I've learned one thing in the past 12 years it is to always presume competence and understanding, even when the child cannot communicate that understanding.

Social stories will help. Make one using lots of pictures of the steps to taking a plane trip. Get photos of airline check in counters/kiosks, luggage scales, escalators, parking lot trams, trains/monorails, the gate area, security checkpoint, the jetway,the inside of a plane, the airplane seats, tray tables, flight attendants, the bathrooms, baggage claim, etc. Make a picture book and read it with him several times a day. Keep it with you on the day of, so you can turn the pages as you reach each part. He will absorb that information and will have familiarity with the process.

If you can, take a trip to the airport and show him the parts that you can see without going through the security checkpoint.

Watch videos on You Tube about air travel. There are a bunch about the process of taking a plane trip.

Buy a highly motivating toy and give it to him as soon as you are able to. If he likes electronics,have them charged and ready to go immediately upon boarding. You can now leave them ON during takeoff. If he watches movies on a tablet, have a few loaded and bring headphones.

Bring a stuffed animal or favorite blanket for security during the flight. Bring favorite snacks or candies that take a long time to eat.

Bring a pad of drawing paper and some crayons. We liked crayola Twistables at that age for airplanes.

2 hours is really nothing. It will probably fly by.

If you think it is necessary, inform the gate crew about your son and see if there is anything they can do to make the process easier. You may get an early boarding pass. One time, I had to let them know that my son was prone to meltdowns but that I would be able to calm him down if that happened so PLEASE do not butt in or kick us off the plane! ;) They were very understanding and informed the pilot and crew members ahead of time. Thankfully, we avoided a meltdown.
 
Our son loves movies so it becomes a basic (although a little over an hour) one show deal. He could not talk either at age of 4 but God blessed us with an autism school back when few knew what it was and he learned..although now looking at videos I see he actually did "talk" - I understood what he was "saying" although today I have no clue watching those how I knew he was telling me he wanted an apple.

You guys ever work with him on maybe ipad even if to type messages? Not recommending..just curious..
 
I will be flying with my autistic 5 year old in January, I am very nervous because we have not had him on a plane since he was a baby. He is also non verbal and does not understand. I was hoping I could get some advice on getting through the 2 hour flight and maybe advice for the airport.

Thanks

Hi
I spend all day trying to get people to stop calling kids "autistic boy" "autistic girl" "autistic kid",,just saying.
Pet Peeve of mine. "Flying With A 5 Year Old Child That Has Autism"

So you have a five year old that has autism,here are a few ideas,

Maybe start by making a visit to a small local airport,

then watch some videos of airplane take offs (youtube).

Make a picture book of what is going to happen on the day you fly.

Have him make a list using PECs so he knows what is going in his backpack.

Have him practice putting his things in the backpack.

Think about sensitivities--likes,dislikes and plan accordingly
examples --
sound--earphones-music,gameboy,hand held games,wrap blanket,weighted vest etc
tactile--squishy ball-playdough,slime,special drinking cup,fav treats,
You know him best--what calms him?

Talk to his teachers and ask them to help prepare him.Maybe they can make a few
social stories for him.
They can also role play in the family centre --by changing the environment into an airplane.

Non verbal kids just need extra ways to communicate and using PECs,photographs,animation and drawings help them to have a "voice".
I second the ipad for everyday use and to facilitate communication.

Have a wonderful Holiday
Hugs Mel
 
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Are you with other people and any chance flying SW? My son has Ds and autism. He flys at least once a year and does very well. We also fly SW because we can board first. By doing so we always sit in the very front row with him next to the window and my other son or husband behind him because he rocks sometimes. Whoever sits behind us keeps his bag under their seat since you aren't aloud a bag in the front row. He has more leg room and is close to the bathroom.

A lot great ideas here but you need to decide what will work for you and have a plan in place for how you will handle any situation that arises (nervousness, tantrum, crying, won't stay seated). Chances are he's going to be just fine :)
 
Thanks everyone for your advice. We will try to work on some things until we go and I will bring his iPad. Hope it goes fast and we get there with no problem!
 
Are you with other people and any chance flying SW? My son has Ds and autism. He flys at least once a year and does very well. We also fly SW because we can board first. By doing so we always sit in the very front row with him next to the window and my other son or husband behind him because he rocks sometimes. Whoever sits behind us keeps his bag under their seat since you aren't aloud a bag in the front row. He has more leg room and is close to the bathroom.

A lot great ideas here but you need to decide what will work for you and have a plan in place for how you will handle any situation that arises (nervousness, tantrum, crying, won't stay seated). Chances are he's going to be just fine :)

I did not request pre-boarding for our youngest son for years because I thought it was for those with physical disabilities only. Thanks to this board, I learned that SW will allow pre-boarding to accommodate other disabilities as well. We fly frequently with our youngest, and the SW boarding process has been very difficult for him. So I finally inquired at the gate about pre-boarding, explaining his disabilities and manifestations and they gave us a pre-boarding card right away. We don't sit in the front row (that's another story) but we do sit near the front and he can avoid the crowded boarding queue. This has been great for everyone - for him, for us, for the crew and for fellow passengers. Thanks SO much to you and to others who share this information!!!
 
First of all, even though your son is "non verbal" don't assume he "doesn't understand." Both of my sons are autistic and if I've learned one thing in the past 12 years it is to always presume competence and understanding, even when the child cannot communicate that understanding.

Social stories will help. Make one using lots of pictures of the steps to taking a plane trip. Get photos of airline check in counters/kiosks, luggage scales, escalators, parking lot trams, trains/monorails, the gate area, security checkpoint, the jetway,the inside of a plane, the airplane seats, tray tables, flight attendants, the bathrooms, baggage claim, etc. Make a picture book and read it with him several times a day. Keep it with you on the day of, so you can turn the pages as you reach each part. He will absorb that information and will have familiarity with the process.

If you can, take a trip to the airport and show him the parts that you can see without going through the security checkpoint.

Watch videos on You Tube about air travel. There are a bunch about the process of taking a plane trip.

Buy a highly motivating toy and give it to him as soon as you are able to. If he likes electronics,have them charged and ready to go immediately upon boarding. You can now leave them ON during takeoff. If he watches movies on a tablet, have a few loaded and bring headphones.

Bring a stuffed animal or favorite blanket for security during the flight. Bring favorite snacks or candies that take a long time to eat.

Bring a pad of drawing paper and some crayons. We liked crayola Twistables at that age for airplanes.

2 hours is really nothing. It will probably fly by.

If you think it is necessary, inform the gate crew about your son and see if there is anything they can do to make the process easier. You may get an early boarding pass. One time, I had to let them know that my son was prone to meltdowns but that I would be able to calm him down if that happened so PLEASE do not butt in or kick us off the plane! ;) They were very understanding and informed the pilot and crew members ahead of time. Thankfully, we avoided a meltdown.
NOT ALL electronics may be kept on during take off ...only smaller sized ones. Just keep that in mind.
 








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