Hi. I just got back on Friday from our 1st trip to Disney with DS who is almost 3. I stressed a lot before the trip about our plans, just as you are now. I will tell you what worked and didn't work for me.
#1, I feel like I definately over-planned. I was so pre-occupied with our plan & getting to the next thing that I didn't enjoy things as much as I could have if I just relaxed a little more.
#2, afternoon nap is a must & as someone else mentioned, plan on 4 hrs with the travel time, etc. My son would not sleep in the stroller no matter how tired he was. My plan was to go to a park at opening, stay until after lunch, go back to the resort for nap, then dinner & back out to a park, then back to the resort for bath & bed. The problem with this is that we missed out on hanging out at the resort & enjoying the pool & other fun stuff. There were so many things I wanted him to see & do at the parks that I feel we kind of rushed from one thing to the next.
#3, I wish we had done more character meals. Meeting the characters turned out to be his most favorite thing. Also related to meals, since we had
free dining, we had a sit down meal every day. This also eats up a lot of time. Our sit down meals took a minimum of 1 1/2 hrs & usually closer to 2 hrs.
We did have a wonderful time & DS really enjoyed every minute. I have been to Disney many times, but this was the 1st trip for DS & I wanted everything to be perfect. I do have some regrets about not taking the time to "stop and smell the roses" so to speak. Lack of sleep & carrying so much stuff around all the time made me kind of cranky too. If I could do it all again, I would have only planned on doing half as much.
Have a wonderful trip!
