Awesome Mesh. Great idea and thank you everyone for the replies. I've made some serious movements with my trip planning and have gotten this far.
Trip date is Dec 21 - 27
Note to self to bring a double umbrella stroller or rent one at the park (I have two girls ages 4 and 6 and everything I read says use a stroller!)
Day 21st
Land at MCO and reach park between 11am - 1pm. Head to Animal Kingdom or Hollywood Studios with the girls till room is ready for us message arrives. Head back for dinner using magic bands deluxe dining package. Let the girls swim (if pool is open.. I know it will be December so unlikely?) and early to bed.
Day 22
Poly character breakfest @ 10am - reserved
Head to Animal Kingdom or Hollywood Studios.
Head back early @ 6 or 7pm (seeing a theme here?

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Day 23
Sleep in!
Epcot day. Reserved dinner @ 5:30 Akershus Royal Banquet Hall
Kids do whatever they want at Epcot and Head back at 7-8pm. Burn off energy with pool time or some other activity if I can identify one then head to sleep.
Day 24 The Magic Begins! Christmas Eve! Magic Kingdom Day 1!
Get to park by 9AM (I hear it closes doors early due to reaching capacity on Christmas Eve and Christmas day)
Crystal palace dinner @ 6:35. Head home right after?
Day 25. MK Day 2! Christmas!
Park by 9AM. Maybe even try for a rope drop?
1pm reserved Cinderella Royal lunch
Day 26. Shopping day. Do whatever day.
I do have a reserved 8:30 dinner at MK sort of a last character dinner before our 6AM flight the next morning. I wanted to get "Be our Guest' earlier but it was totally all the way back to even before the 21st. All times!
So the going theme here is to burn those deluxe dining credits on room service. Sit down table service (when the crowds are fighting long lines for food) and character dinners.
Don't wear ourselves out by staying in the park to close every day. Instead sleep in a little.. Do what events I can then get out early for some down time and relaxation back at Poly!
Haven't book Fast Pass selections yet as it isn't close enough to my reservation yet but I am thinking I better use all of my inital fast pass reservations on Christmas Eve and Christmas day and not even bother with them on the 3 days leading up? MK is going to be packed on those two days so might as well right?
Critique? Suggestions?