Just like insurance companies deciding what kind of treatments are covered and what isn't? It's really their call as to what kind of service they allow you to receive because hey, they're really paying for it....
Insurance is a service that we PAY for... it's not the same thing at all.
I have two forms of health insurance-- neither of them dictate what kind of service I am allowed to receive, they dictate what they're going to pay for and that is something I agreed to PRIOR to purchasing their plan. How is that at all the same thing??? The government is handing this money out- all you have to do is be a first time home buyer... meaning you need to actually buy the house to be eligible for it. If it were meant to help someone get a mortgage in the first place it should be titled the "Trying to Buy a House Tax Credit". ...
DH and I did have a very unique situation which we benefited from immensely, I will admit that... but everything we got, we EARNED. I worked for the bank for two years, got laid off for 9 months and went back to work for them to get our bank fees waived on the mortgage. DH was enlisted in the Marines to get the VA loan. He was injured and got some additional fees waived. Nothing was handed to us, it was perks of the choices we had made in our lives.
It's not like someone handed us a check (like it seems you're saying you want the government to do) and said "Here, we're going to help you get this mortgage just because."
