Hmmm, maybe we should rethink our plan to see WOC and Fantasmic...just when I thought I had things under control!
I did read about the Fantasmic Dessert package, but DD15 has multiple food allergies, which really limits what she can eat for dessert, and DS7 doesn't like any sweets, so it wouldn't really be worth the price for us.
I actually didn't mind the wait for Fantasmic. We went to the early show about 1.5-2.0 hours early (off season mind you, March), laid a blanket out front and centre as we were the first ones there then either DH or I took the kids on a ride, picked up dinner, or shopped while the other manned the blanket. It was kind of nice to just relax after a long day and people watch. Just make sure you all get back to the blanket at least 30 min before the show as people stop respecting your personal space around that time and will fill every empty spot. It's SUCH an amazing show. So worth the wait. Our kids loved it way more than WOC. I found WOC to be too much of a pain to enjoy but I know others love it.
You had asked about wide right at RSR. Basically if you wanted to ride RSR first thing in the morning at rope drop (which is just what it sounds... they let everyone in the gates but there is a rope blocking access to the park in the square. When it's time, they drop the rope and the crowd surges ahead to RSR). If you stay to the right hand side, you'll get further ahead more quickly as the left hand side is slowly "filtered" to the right by CM's and various blockades. Those on the left are then pushed back in the line as they try and "merge" with the crowd on the right. The more right you are, the fewer people come in front of you from the left. It might sound confusing but makes perfect sense once you see it.