Night Owl Thanks for the great tips. We just decided in the last 2 days to do this trip and it has been 20 years since I have been to WDW so this is all new to me at this point and i haven't mapped out any must do activities etc So if you have any "Must-Do's" for a 4 year old I would love to hear them. I am not so much worried about me seeing specific items but making sure my son has a great first experience. I know that unfortunately the Electric lights parade is not scheduled for the day we are there-one of my favorite memories from when I went as a kid!
Do you think only being there for 1 day the Photopass+ is worth it?
I'm probably the wrong one to ask about photo pass because I never think it is worth it no matter how long I stay. I just can't bring myself to pay that much for pictures that I can print at home or develop at
Walmart for a fraction of the cost. The photo pass people will use your camera or your phone to take the same pictures for you for free, so why pay for it?
As far as rides that really depends on the kid. Some at 4 will ride roller coasters all day, others are terrified of the tamest of rides. Some love certain characters, others don't have a preference. For a 4 year old boy, I'd say start by looking into (in no order) Pirates of the Caribbean (slow moving boat ride) if he wouldn't be too scared, Buzz Lightyear (interactive shoot them up game), Dumbo, Peter Pan, Winnie the Pooh, Tomorrowland Speedway (race car ride), Prince Charming carrousel, the Mad Tea Cups, and Mickey Philharmagic show (3d glasses). Those are all pretty tame attractions that appeal to that age group.
More iffy are the mountains, Splash, Thunder, and Space. I personally love the first two, but hate the last as I feel it jerks me around too much and is just uncomfortable. The drop at the end of Splash Mountain as well as some of the darker cave areas of the ride can be scary for a 4 year old. Thunder mountain is just a typical outdoor roller coaster, and a pretty tame one at that. It doesn't go upside down or backwards or anything, but could definitely be too much for a 4 year old. Space mountain is the most intense, all inside, pitch black, and very fast. I wouldn't classify it as 4 year old friendly at all, but there are kids who love it. The barnstormer is another iffy ride. It's a roller coaster located by Dumbo, but its more of a kiddy coaster, than a real coaster. Again a 4 year old might love it, might be terrified of it. It actually looks like a traditional metal coaster unlike the mountains.
The haunted mansion is fun and the ghosts are more funny than scary, but it could definitely be scary for a 4 year old as well. Nothing jumps out at you or tries to get you or anything, but it is dark, there are scary noises, things move, and the ghosts look real. Also, there is a part at the end where a ghost gets in the car with you that could be seen as funny or scary depending on the kid.
I absolutely hate Stitch, and would recommend avoiding that at all costs, but again, there are those who love it. It's a "ride" where you do nothing but sit strapped into seats that don't move in the dark while creepy escaped aliens run around you. It's a 4d experience so you feel things touch you and stuff. Many a kid has left in tears hysterical, many an adult I think too. We had a horrible experience there years ago where the harness malfunctioned and came down and squished my little sister. I spent the whole ride trying to hold the pressure off of her as she sat there crying in pain. I've since learned that this has happened to quite a few other people as well and would never chance it again. If it does happen, there are no emergency releases and no cast members to help, so you are just stuck until the show which is not short ends.
Well, off the top of my head, those are my recommendations. But at 4, he'll have fun whatever you do. Everything is all real and magical at that age.