Family (warning:slight vent)

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OK, I'll try to keep this as short as I can.

Last Friday, I told y'all about my uncle's girlfriend, Theresa. She is an immature you-know-what. Doesn't have a job, plays gameboy ALL day, when she's not playing gameboy, she's doing crossword puzzles. I could go on and on about her. So anyways, I decided that instead of going to my grandparent's house for pizza tonight, I would go home. Everytime I am around Theresa, I am miserable. It is just easier and more pleasant for everyone if I stay home and avoid her. I asked my grandma to bring me home today and she asked why. I said because I want to go home. She is very sensitive and takes everything personally. She said that its not right for me to go home. I shouldn't be so mean to Theresa. There has to be some reason that Theresa doesn't like me, she wouldn't be mad at me for no reason. She basically turned on me and sided with Theresa. She said that I am mean to my uncle, too. I talk to my uncle, but I don't really know him. As I said in my previous thread, there was a time when he didn't talk to anyone in the family for a couple years. My grandma told me that I can't keep that over his head for the rest of his life and he has always been nice to me. I said that I don't really know him and since the time that he was gone, he has changed. I don't really have any positive memories of him. I have just never really been too close to him. My grandma told me that I was going to live a long, miserable, lonely life if I am like this. I said that Theresa is the only person I have a problem with and I am not the only one that has a problem with her. I said that I am surprised that my uncle and Theresa haven't realized that NOONE in this family likes her. Unfortunately, it doesn't look like they will be splitting up anytime soon. I said that even when my other uncle's fiance is at my grandma's house, my mom and my uncle's fiance (I don't like her, either) talk about Theresa in the kitchen. Nothing extremely bad, just things like when you ask her to pass you a piece of pizza, she licks her fingers then reaches for the pizza with her bare hands (gross). Anytime Theresa walks into the room, conversation stops. I just can't believe that my uncle and Theresa haven't realized how everyone feels about her. :confused3 My grandma is taking all this personally. She told me today that she doesn't understand me anymore. I hate that Theresa is coming between me and my grandma. We always used to be so close, but now, it seems like everytime me and my grandma disagree, it is over Theresa. I hate this. I just wish that Theresa would go away and everything would be back to the way they used to be.

Sorry, just had to vent a little bit. I think my friends are tired of hearing me complain about Theresa and my parents will be angry that I offended my grandmother like that. UGH
 
I'm sorry, how about a hug? I know how grandmothers can be, I love my Nonnie more than anything, but she has horrid taste in clothes. I'm big, but have figured on how to dress myself to my age without having my various parts sticking out, but she likes grannie things for me. But she told me, if you dont' like something, tell me so we can not buy it or I can take it back. So she tried to buy me a turtle neck with snowmen on it. I hate turtlenecks, so I said no thank you, and she got all mad and was in a bad mood for the rest of the day. I felt bad, but she was fine after that.

:hug:
 
I feel bad for you, but if you don't want to offend your granmother you are going to have to put on a happy face for the few hours a week you have to spend with Theresa. Your grandmother takes it hard because she is the person her son chose. Parents tend to be defensive for thier kids whether thier children make the right decision or not. Try to make plans with your friends when you know she will be there. Good luck!
 

Thanks everyone! My mom yelled at me today because I didn't say hi to her when I went to my grandma's this morning. I didn't even see her! I was in the kitchen and she was in the living room sitting in a chair that was around the corner from where I was standing! Oh well, can't ever do anything right. :confused3 I get to go to a Christmas party tonight with my friends (the color guard), so that should make all this go away!!! :rotfl2: :Pinkbounc

Barbara: You got a new picture in your siggy! I like it. It's very cute.
 

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