Family that declined now wants to go.

[NateNLogansDad]

Let's say hypothetically, you planned a trip just after your brothers wedding and he doesn't have a clue what he wants to due for a Honeymoon. You offer for them go come along but they want to do their own thing. Months later after you are on the phone for a few hrs on hold you make the ressie's and find out later that they are thinking of coming along now. It's 3 months out and he's the kind of guy where he expects you to do it for him. Would you.....

A. Change the meal plans and try to find a hotel you can all stay at?
B. Find him a different hotel and try to find places you can all eat together?
C. Hand him the phone #'s and tell him good luck.
D. Tell him it's too late and maybe next yr

I'm leaning towards C. He's been there before quite a few times so he knows the general logistics of what is going on, e just needs to be a big boy and do some of the adult stuff. I spent alot of time on dinners and plans and really don't feel like changing them all. If he wants to meet up in the parks, thats fine, but he will be leaving the baby home and I'll have my kids so I'll be doing what they want not really what he may want.

 

[mainelyj]

I would like him make his own arrangements and if they work, they work. If they are going to be on their own - then you do not have to worry about reservations for dinner. You can let him know what your dinner reservations are and they can try to to get their own.

I would not do the work for them. This would stress you out too much. And, if he does not want to do make the arrangements, that is his problem.

I would say, I am so excited that he would want to come along. Give him a list of where you are staying, etc and even telephone numbers so he can make the arrangements. If he ask you to this, just say you will not be able to help.

Good luck.

 

[NateNLogansDad]

Yea, months of planning ain't gonna go down the tubes that easy!