Mickeyluver37
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Happy Snowman, please elaborate on the bolded part. Do you think if a student graduates with mostly A's, they have a good chance of academic scholarships? I am just getting familiar with the process (my oldest is 11 but I want an early start).
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That's absolutely what we're seeing in terms of aid - state schools offer scholarships to top athletes but not much to top students and virtually nothing beyond the federal programs for need, while private unis offer more generous packages for both academics and for need. We joke that DD isn't considering any schools that cost less than we earn in a year, but after everything is said and done those schools would cost us less than the $25K state land-grant university would. Fortunately DD is a very driven child and has the kind of profile schools want to see - excellent grades and deep, consistent involvement with a few extracurriculars that she really loves (although she'll try anything once, as long as it doesn't get in the way of softball, swim, or 4H) - so if she keeps to the path she's on now I think she's got a good shot of getting into a top school.
And I've heard the bolded before. The one I suspect she'll end up choosing is about 30 minutes from my SIL's house - DD has already been there, just sightseeing, and we'll be making our first "official" campus visit over summer vacation. It would be a little too far from home for "visit early and often" to be practical if not for the fact that family takes us to the area frequently anyway, but since we're there she'll get the chance to see that campus at a variety of times of year.
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) to a state college where she would be 'starting over'


not to be a wet blanket-but just keep in mind on the scholarships (non athletic-they are whole unique breed of their own): REALY read and research the duration they are offered for AND the real cost of continued (to graduation) attendance of any individual college/university.
I say this based on in-depth discussions with financial aid personnel at these institutions as well as administrators of private scholarship foundations.
what I've learned is the bulk of offerings (to those who meet the qualifications) go to freshman, with on average smaller offerings subsequent years. this might not be an issue if a cost issue can in subsequent years be solved by a student transferring to another lower cost college/university if worse comes to worse, but unfortunately some (esp. private from what I've been told) places don't always have easily transferable units. sadly, some institutions (including public) will ply freshman with 1st and 2nd year generous offerings of scholarships only to offer next to none their 3rd year FULLY KNOWING that when those kids go looking at their options they find that while they met their general ed requirements for their major at their current school they are severely lacking at others. the institutions look to the availability of student loans and gamble that the kids will opt to pay a huge out of pocket amount vs. feeling that they have to 'start over' at a lower cost alternative.
imho-it pays to look at a potential institution in the same way you look at a potential career opportunity-does it meet my needs now/are the skills (credits) transferrable for my future. I currently know a young person who was given a freshman 'free ride' at a very well thought of private college, only to find out last summer that the ride was over and she was faced with a potentially huge tuition bill this year. the discussions with her financial aide office resulted little more than them pointing out how much she would save going there vs. transferring (with next to no transferable units) to a state college where she would be 'starting over'
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Every single school we researched, ALL of the scholarships, merit awards, that were available were ALL available for 4 years. Most had a stipulation for maintaining a certain GPA or adequate progress but we never saw a single scholarship for the major merit awards granted by colleges that was not a 4 year award providing them met the criteria. Now, some schools have a really high GPA that must be maintained and that isn't always easy but most were pretty reasonable--3.0-3.2 ish or less sometimes. Several schools even had a 2.5 because they didn't want their students to hold back from taking challenging courses. I think the "give it to freshmen and take it away for later years" is a myth. Schools are very concerned about their retention rates and do not want students transferring out. In our experience, there has been more and more money available to students in subsequent years, not less.
If you can provide links that back up your position, fine, but I just don't see that happening with our kids, any of their friends, any of the schools they researched or anything on any of the college dedicated boards that backs that up. I suspect your "young friend" had academic issues that disqualified her from her "free ride". Also, many of the "well thought of" private schools do not give merit aid at all.
Financial aid can and does change depending on your financial situation but the merit awards do not (well, many schools will adjust the awards up to match cost increases).
I can't post links to conversations i had but if you want to research the concept-check out the Princeton Review article "Will You Get Less Financial Aid After Your Freshman Year" dated 8/2/13. If you read it off the Review's website it provides a link to the College Data website (courtesy of the College Solution website) with instructions on how to access individual school's "money matters data" where it shows how much freshman offerings can differ at individual schools vs. what they offer "all undergraduates". depending on the individual school the difference can be significant.
Honestly, some of the best sources of information are on college confidential. There are fafsa tips, school reviews, listings of schools that provide higher merit aid, etc. Great source for students and parents and we were guided to it by a poster on the Dis.

Every single school we researched, ALL of the scholarships, merit awards, that were available were ALL available for 4 years. Most had a stipulation for maintaining a certain GPA or adequate progress but we never saw a single scholarship for the major merit awards granted by colleges that was not a 4 year award providing them met the criteria. Now, some schools have a really high GPA that must be maintained and that isn't always easy but most were pretty reasonable--3.0-3.2 ish or less sometimes. Several schools even had a 2.5 because they didn't want their students to hold back from taking challenging courses. I think the "give it to freshmen and take it away for later years" is a myth. Schools are very concerned about their retention rates and do not want students transferring out. In our experience, there has been more and more money available to students in subsequent years, not less.
If you can provide links that back up your position, fine, but I just don't see that happening with our kids, any of their friends, any of the schools they researched or anything on any of the college dedicated boards that backs that up. I suspect your "young friend" had academic issues that disqualified her from her "free ride". Also, many of the "well thought of" private schools do not give merit aid at all.
Financial aid can and does change depending on your financial situation but the merit awards do not (well, many schools will adjust the awards up to match cost increases).
Unfortunately the "she" vs "he" will hurt her some....as long as she is realistic and understands that a 10% acceptance rate, or even 20%, isn't a reflection on HER!!! There are only so many seats they can fill and "love thy safety" is a good mantra to instill early and often.
Every single school we researched, ALL of the scholarships, merit awards, that were available were ALL available for 4 years. Most had a stipulation for maintaining a certain GPA or adequate progress but we never saw a single scholarship for the major merit awards granted by colleges that was not a 4 year award providing them met the criteria.
I just want to throw in that not everything is written in stone as far as merit scholarships. My kid, who does have a 3.8 unweighted GPA, but absolutely horrible SAT scores (480R, 460M, 440W) and an even worse ACT composite, got the highest merit scholarship available offered to him from one top tier liberal arts college. He wrote a really great essay and even though he has never taken AP classes, he did pretty much take all honors classes. Plus, he had absolutely no EC's. He does have a long, documented history of not being able to take standardized tests, even though he makes super high grades. He's just a hard worker with no test taking skills, I guess
One other thing, all of the merit scholarships he was offered on his acceptance letters, and there were several of varying amounts, explicitly stated that they were renewable for all four years as long as he maintained a 3.0 GPA, and gave the total four year value.
We must be sucky parents because we've just always said "do the best you can, and somebody will want you somewhere". And a few somebodies did!
I just want to throw in that not everything is written in stone as far as merit scholarships. My kid, who does have a 3.8 unweighted GPA, but absolutely horrible SAT scores (480R, 460M, 440W) and an even worse ACT composite, got the highest merit scholarship available offered to him from one top tier liberal arts college. He wrote a really great essay and even though he has never taken AP classes, he did pretty much take all honors classes. Plus, he had absolutely no EC's. He does have a long, documented history of not being able to take standardized tests, even though he makes super high grades. He's just a hard worker with no test taking skills, I guess
One other thing, all of the merit scholarships he was offered on his acceptance letters, and there were several of varying amounts, explicitly stated that they were renewable for all four years as long as he maintained a 3.0 GPA, and gave the total four year value.
We must be sucky parents because we've just always said "do the best you can, and somebody will want you somewhere". And a few somebodies did!
One other thing, all of the merit scholarships he was offered on his acceptance letters, and there were several of varying amounts, explicitly stated that they were renewable for all four years as long as he maintained a 3.0 GPA, and gave the total four year value.
This is what we saw on MOST websites too. That said, older son's chosen school doesn't give gpa based merit aid and younger son's college explicitly stated merit awards are for freshman year only. It all comes down to reading the fine lines at your chosen school to see what's available, what's renewable, etc.
I think that many students could find the best fit school if they shopped a little differently.
Many students want "top" schools, or schools that have great reputations and everyone knows their name. Then they work hard on molding themselves into the candidate that may have a chance at getting accepted. OF course tens of thousands of other students are doing the exact same thing.
Students need to focus their research on schools that have what they need, but also on schools that want what the student has. Most schools offer similar majors, but what's going outside of the classroom? Is half of the lacrosse team graduating this year and you were captain of your HS team? Is this school in need of a little more diversity (whether it's race, sex, geography, etc)? Would you be towards the top of the academic class at this school? Looking for schools this way can possibly increase not only acceptances, but also merit money offered.
Most schools have some sort of social media page (FB, Twitter) and lots of informal information can be found there. By looking at my daughter's school's webpage, I can see the demographic makeup of the sports teams, who's graduating, where they're from originally, etc.
For my own D, I helped research schools for her. I found a school with a good reputation for her major, an almost new concentration in that major (so it was up and coming and in need of people to enroll in it to gain a solid reputation), and saw on their FB page that her specific "type" was underrepresented within that major, so I felt pretty good that she would be a competitive candidate. She was accepted, with merit money and is blissfully happy there. There were plenty of other colleges that were better known for her major, but her type wasn't in demand, they were extremely expensive and she probably would not have received much merit aid. So, she focused her applications on schools that were a good match for everyone (her academically and socially, for us financially).
There's no need to go into major debt for an undergraduate degree if one shops smartly.

