How competative are the schools they are applying to? DD is looking at TCU, Elon, High Point & Duke (yep, a definite NC theme...and yet we live in Nebraska!) She is well aware that TCU, Elon & High Point will be more generous with merit packages than Duke (they only offer 90 freshman merit scholarships/year--BUT they promise your financial aid package will include no more than 5K/yr in loans--impressive for a school w/ $60K/yr expenses, ALTHOUGH how much of that is parent loans??!!) Less competative schools will offer much better packages.
DS 19 had a 30 ACT (took it 3x, improving a point each time) & 4.0 GPA, and an assortment of extra curriculars (no athletics), including philanthropy. Our state school offered him a measily $1K scholarship (I had lower ACT & GPA, went to same high school & I was offered half tuition!). Local private school & TCU offered him half tuition & Seton Hall NJ offered him a full ride.
(Not trying to brag--I just know how important a point of reference is for these things!)
He went to TCU & was also offered a nice sized grant & work study (we are both teachers--lunch break here
). Last year he paid close to what we would have paid for full tuition/room & board at our state school. Costs did go up a chunk this year--we are so grateful that grandparents created college funds for our children to allow them to attend the school of their choice.
Never assume you will not get financial aid. College expenses are so off the charts, that you would be very surprised how much you might get--and every little bit helps!
Good luck everyone--it's a crazy ride!
DS 19 had a 30 ACT (took it 3x, improving a point each time) & 4.0 GPA, and an assortment of extra curriculars (no athletics), including philanthropy. Our state school offered him a measily $1K scholarship (I had lower ACT & GPA, went to same high school & I was offered half tuition!). Local private school & TCU offered him half tuition & Seton Hall NJ offered him a full ride.
(Not trying to brag--I just know how important a point of reference is for these things!)
He went to TCU & was also offered a nice sized grant & work study (we are both teachers--lunch break here

Never assume you will not get financial aid. College expenses are so off the charts, that you would be very surprised how much you might get--and every little bit helps!
Good luck everyone--it's a crazy ride!